Am I truly ever going to get over her and the disappointment and sadness?

[Inthecraphole]

I am really struggling right now with severe depression. I had to go to the hospital last night.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend, although I had an online thing with this girl back in 2020. She was perfect at the time. She never had a male friend before me, never dated, never been kissed, and was still a virgin. It completely tore me apart when she rejected me when we met in person the first time.

I ended up having a ton of alcohol last night and almost blacked out. I ended up calling her mom and she was frantically trying to help me over the phone.

The thing is, I am so overcomed by disappointment over that girl. That new guy she is with gets to be her first everything. They are getting married this year. Who knows, they may have decided to get married sooner and are already married. I still talk to her mom, but I am afraid to learn any new details.

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I keep having dreams about her. I just want to be able to find another woman without a romantic past.

[user1111111]

Well, it seems like you are looking for a more “serious” relationship. I am not old enough to to use them but here is my verdict from what I have heard! Don’t use tinder, use hinge you find people looking for a much more serious relationship and not just a quickee. People say soulmates are found on that app.

[888theGreat]

grow a set and get over it