Am I normal when I can’t get over her?

[Anonymous]

I really liked one girl. She liked me too for some time. We kissed few times, we went out but then she turned me down. It happened six months ago and I am still not over her. I struggle with this so bad. It really hurt me and i have to admit it was a first girl i cried over. Four years ago I had first relationship and i was over it like in 2 months. Now I can't get over it. Now I was talking with her friends and I looked a way where she was talking to one guy. Her friends looked at me like if I am serious or dont know how to say it. Their face expressions were like “you really still aren't over her”. Then they told me that they saw in my eyes jealousy and pain and told me to forget her. I dont know why but it hurt me AF. I felt pretty ashamed in front of them that I am still not over it. I feel like I dont want to go through this again and I better be single forever cuz this ain't worth it. Before her everything was fine and now it all sucks. I really want to get over it cuz it is killing me. I mean i can focus on something but there are times when I feel so low and dont see the point of carrying with stuff. Is it normal I am not over it and that it still hurts so much?

[Guy13]

Sometimes things are great before the kiss and then, "there's nothing". No electrical magic and sometimes not even a spark.

It turns out that you might could be a good friend if you reel in your emotions. The way you sound though is a little worrisome. She's probably feeling that creepy stalker like vibe even if you are not doing any of that. Women can feel that so either 1. go see a counselor, 2. stay busy, and/or 3. move-on and find someone else to chase for awhile.

[Wise4myage]

Not normal and you should seek help if you can't move on.