Only 10-20 percent of men in America are getting all the women. American women have become so picky that they think 80 percent of men are unattractive according to data done by OKcupid. This data was later taken down due to all the backlash from the woke people. I read something like 40 percent of American women today age 25 to 44 will never get married or reproduce. This is going to cause infrastructure and economic problems since the system is not built to handle so many singles. Many people won’t have enough money to retire being single. What are your thoughts on this little known crisis?
Is anyone else concerned that 1/3 of males below age 29 in America are virgins?
I think it's because women for so long NEEDED a man to survive. We needed to marry a man so he could provide for us. Women couldn't even open a bank account until the 70s let alone actually be completely and utterly independent. There are still some states to this day where a woman needs her husband's signature just to be approved for a tubal ligation. Women weren't allowed to divorce their husband's decades ago without serious legal and social backlash. Yea couples stayed together longer before but that's because they were expected to stay. Even if their husband was abuse or an alcoholic or a fucking pedophile, it was still kept hush hush and treated like it was normal. Men are starting to figure out that they have to be more than just a bread winner to find a decent woman to marry. They have to be equals to women, meaning that not only do they have to work, they also have to share the responsibility of childcare and housework, which a lot of men don't want to do. Why would women want to marry if it just means having another big "kid" to take care of and pick up after? We're not being picky, we're just setting our standards where they should be and men feel like those standards should be as low as how they were for their fathers and grandfathers
You are ignoring the fact that an equal amount of women are also virgins though not many of them seem to be on GaG judging by the posts on questions like "what is your body count?"
Not really... I'm one of those men and it's simply because of a lack of trying. Last time I met a girl I was mildly interested in was when I was 19 or 20. Women these days just aren't all that attractive in personality or body, and casual sex never appealed to me. I've seen a lot of men in my family get shit on in relationships, either getting cheated on or doing 95% of the work for a fat pig who treats them poorly, so I'm not all that eager to get in on that.
I'm beginning to wonder if relationships were ever all that worth it in the first place, or if people engaged in them because they had nothing better to do. Now there's so many ways to be entertained and have fun... I can hang out with my bros and then go home and fap to porn. At what point does a woman need to be in the picture?
1. Actually, about HALF of all males in the US age 29 and under are virgins. That is the half that is under the age of 15. www.statista.com/.../
2. When I go to the mall, I sit in a corridor and watch the people who stroll by me. Many of them are couples walking hand-in-hand, and a fairly high percentage of them are ugly AF. There is someone for everyone.
What is your source for that statistic? Unfortunately the link you provided just takes me to a page that shows population demographics for how many males and females there are. There's no mention of what percentage are virgins.
As for there being someone for everyone, that's a belief, not a fact. I've known too many people who marched to their graves having never found anyone to believe your assertion.
As for ugly couples you see at the mall, you have no idea if they're happy. I too have known some ugly couples. For quite a few of them, the sex is lackluster or non existent.
I assumed the asker meant post pubescent males. If you look at his response to Zagor down below, you see he clarifies this.
I asked you exactly one question, and that was how you came by your statistic. If you look back at my reply, you'll see there's only one question mark. All the others are declarative sentences commenting on other things you said. Perhaps you're confusing me with the asker.
"You said they can't get anyone to date."
I didn't say that. I think you're confusing me for the asker.
@Bluemax I would like to see his source for that statistic. Since status as a virgin is determined entirely by self-report, which is notoriously inaccurate, no one with any intellectual honesty would pretend to have valid numbers, and especially not broken down by age.
Feminists: "Good! We're making progress. But we need to do MORE! I know; outlaw all the free porn and make OnlyFans the only game in town! The free porn was good in helping us, but now it's time to put a stop to it! They're addicted, so let's now make them pay for it! Soon, nuclear families will be a thing of the past!"
Stupid-ass GAG Female Anon 18-24, to @MCheetah: "That's not how feminists think! Feminism is about equality. They don't hate men or families. They don't to see men sad, alone, and miserable."
I believe it. I can’t speak for everyone else but I find very few men physically attractive. I can’t help that. And even fewer men attractive in the way they think and behave. I used to have lower standards and Ill never lower them again. I is Wray it is. I have found one though!
Yes!! It's a TERRIBLE human tragedy and I think we should STOP wasting all this time and money on this global warming bullshit and start using it on seeing to it we supply hookers for these poor guys!! A guy with a stiff dick is a terrible thing to waste!! So, give generously to Hookers Instead Of Hands fund, today!! Give `til it stops hurting!!
If that's true then it's very sad. Men need to be enjoying their youth too. I personally feel like generally most guys are attractive so I don't get why some women are so picky
@Jamie05rhs I have to disagree here. Life is short and are youth is extremely short and we should be spending this precious time with someone we love. Wasting time having fun by yourself isn't gonna be worth it compared to having that special someone. And men especially need love/sex to be thriving and enjoying life
@Apple1996 Well, in my case, it's not like I was single intentionally. I just figure as long as I'm single I might as well make the most of it and enjoy my bachelorhood.
@Jamie05rhs Agreed. I'm soon to be 25 and still a virgin. First and last kiss was a decade ago. I've had crushes (and have one) that have never been reciprocated so I can't say that it's not just me waiting for the right girl. But I also can't say it bothers me since I've improved tenfold since the age of 22 and that was initially motivated by wanting a girlfriend. Then one day I suddenly realized that all my guy friends and family are man-whores who have either cheated on or with someone and I'm the most skilled and talented man I know. I really am the greatest man I know. And I've traveled the better part of this country and a couple parts of The States and I wouldn't have been able to do that if I had someone tying me down. I wouldn't have been able to learn everything I have if I had been tied down.
I regret that I didn't get to have the typical high school experiences: Find a girl who liked me, drive her places, lose my virginity, enjoy my youth. But, I mean, I was also called ugly and unattractive by girls back then and was a scrawny nerdy loser. Now I'm tattooed, ripped and tall and I'm rejecting 2-3 girls a week who just come up to me for sex at bars. Plus I see how unhappy a lot of these people actually are and it makes me feel better that I'm happy being alone.
@InventorofWarp I'm not sure why you guys keep thinking that being in a relationship makes you tied down. I've been in a relationship since I was 16 and never felt that way. We've traveled around together and that makes the experience better. I get that some people are happy single tho but the reality is that everyone needs love and having someone special doesn't make you tied down
You're unique. The overwhelming reality of it is that most people I know who have a significant other simple cannot pack up and go somewhere whenever they want. They can't just do whatever they want. Many of them even had a kid before Uni was over.
If you wanted to pack up and head to Montreal for a week tomorrow could you honestly say you could do it without having to worry about your paramour?
Everyone does need love. Hence why I have two dogs in my bed at night. I would definitely LOVE to have someone to share my life with. But at this point, my life is so good and I'm such a catch that the cons of having a partner are just far too great to outweigh the pros and I can't see myself taking that chance on anyone because I simply can't see anyone being worth thagt amount of headache. If there are things that I'm interested in, I just go do them. Simple as that. And a partner would impede my ability to go to the gun range on the weeknd, go camping for a few days, go to another city to go collaborate with other musicians, go learn another skill. All stuff that I can't just up and do with someone else. If you can then your boy/girlfriend clearly doesn't have a life of his own and just gravitates around you, which I honestly wouldn't find attractive in a partner. I need an equal that challenges me.
@InventorofWarp well I'm 8 months pregnant and have two other kids to care for. I do travel with them but it takes planning. My husband is overseas at the moment so I can do whatever I want without running it by him first considering he isn't here. When he is here we try spending as much time together as possible but I have traveled without him in the past. And awh that's cute you have some pups to love on🐕🐕 I'm sure you could find a girl who is okay with you doing all those things. None of it seems unreasonable in my opinion
I'm concerned about low marriage rates, high divorce rates, low birth rates, and a population that sustains and grows solely because of immigration. That's a pretty abysmal mix.
It's the inevitable result of women having financial independence. You do want women to have financial independence, don't you? I mean a financially independent woman isn't going to have sex with a loser virgin is she?
Those unrealistic expectations are in your heads. You all think women want abs and millionaires and whine when someone isn't into you. And then saying it's women's high expectations of men.
@Fuentes Don't you think, I tried most of those apps and barely get matches or dates. Only been on one date so far. I tried most dating apps for years and never gotten anything.
@poneglyphs the key to tinder is paying for the gold perks see who likes you or mark yourself off to only let those see you who you swipe on on the options & delete your original tinder profile & make a new one then buy gold perk, i do this every summer its the only time i use tinder cause its super popping in cali a lot of people visit & hella college girls coming in and whoever likes you match them see whats up one is bound to be down for a quick smash lol be assertive about it too or be yourself i get alotta smashes off tinder & a few girls are offended i dont wanna date but idc theyre unmatched or get blocked on snap if they aren't diown or wasste my time
Really well I get nothing and I live near Chicago. I bought tinder gold but I never got any matches or anything really. Hardly anyone responds to me @Fuentes
