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What should I do, is he actually trying his best or should I just end of all here?

I will try my best to stay neutral here, but this is happening with me rn, and I tend to also obsess over the bad things. So I, 28 F, in India, have been in the arrange marriage process since almost 2 years, I've talked...
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Don’t self-improvement books for women tend to spoil them by framing everything as the world’s fault?

Yesterday, I went to the self-improvement section of the library and noticed a clear difference between books aimed at men and those aimed at women. Many of the books targeted at men focus on self-discipline,...
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I can't help but feel guilty for my friends leaving me. Did I do something incredibly wrong?

So long story short, I had a falling out with my friend group because of me miscommunicating their words to each other. One friend started spending less time with us, the rest of us felt bad and talked about it, the said...
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Why are women blamed for mens actions? can't men just be better?

Like if a man leaves her with a child, its her fault because she chose him. Even tho men can change and manipulate for years. Why are men allergic to accountability?
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Should men hide emotions?

For this, i want both sides to be brutally honest, so I will, too. I'm an ex alcoholic who had significant emotional issues for years that was caused by me having a bad, negative attitude. That out of the way, I wonder...
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For this, i want both sides to be brutally honest, so I will, too. I'm an ex alcoholic who had significant emotional issues for years that was caused by me having a bad, negative Show More
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What are your new years commitments?

As part of my commitment to my new outlook on life, I've realized that my negativity has been the sole thing holding me back. No big, mean federal agents knocked on my door like I feared they would if my political...
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Who do you think should be at fault?

The scenario: 17 Jimmy breaks into friends house and steals a legally stored and secured firearm. Friends dad, Joe, doesn't realize gone is gone (he's on vaca or jimmy covered his tracks well). Jimmy uses the gun in a...
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The scenario: 17 Jimmy breaks into friends house and steals a legally stored and secured firearm. Friends dad, Joe, doesn't realize gone is gone (he's on vaca or jimmy covered his Show More
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How do I rekindle with this girl?

I matched and spoke to this 10/10 stunning girl 1.5 months ago. She seemed nice, I spoke to her during a period where I was really busy. We were going to meet up, but I think I accidentally communicated disinterest by not...
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I matched and spoke to this 10/10 stunning girl 1.5 months ago. She seemed nice, I spoke to her during a period where I was really busy. We were going to meet up, but I think I Show More
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If you have been the scapegoat when shit hits the fan in a relationship, among family members, at work, why do you think you're an easy target?

Not that none of it is your fault, just in the sense that they make it seem like it's all your fault or you're the one holding them back and shit like that
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Not that none of it is your fault, just in the sense that they make it seem like it's all your fault or you're the one holding them back and shit like that Show More
People just don't like me/I rub them the wrong way
I'm surrounded by narcissists
They think I'm weird to begin with, so it makes it easier to go after me
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My boyfriend is blaming me for my SA?

My boyfriend is completely blaming me for my sexual assault, and it’s clearly damaging our relationship. I was sexually assaulted about one to two weeks ago. When I first told him, he blamed me, then we supposedly “moved...
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Why did my coworkers give me the cold shoulder for missing work and the kids holiday performance?

I got sick last Wednesday and I think my coworkers are upset because I was unable to be at the Christmas holiday show. We’ll I could not get people sick. Two days later I got better and I said I felt bad for not being...
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Cascadia Subduction Zone is loading very badly. What do you think?

There is a very high percent change, relatively speaking, for a 9.0+ Magnitude quake on the Cascadia Subduction Zone, and this percent change is only growing with each passing decade (or century). The total damage from a...
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Got stood up…. Date is acting very jealous even though I pretty much have called things off. Why is she being like this obviously she wasn’t interes?

I wasn’t fully stood up…. She was a hour late. This was our third date… Things we’re going very well and she seemed interested. After ten minutes of waiting I called her. Maybe something was wrong… maybe she had a wreck...
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Why do some people online deliberately miss the point of what you wrote?

I swear. It's like these people don't actually READ. It's like they only read the title and nothing else, or heck, other times not even the full title, more like the first 3 words of the title. And then they go and try to...
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Unbalance in how much time you spend together?

I have had a few serious relationships in the past, unfortunately one on them got mental, the other developed an addiction after something devestating happened in his life to help get him through. Both these guys came...
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If girlfriend keeps nagging me about housework although I feel that I am doing enough while paying most bills, should I eventually break up with her?

She is a good girl overall and the relationship works well, except when it comes to housework. She always keeps pestering me although I do housework every Saturday and Sunday and sometimes even on work days (vacuum...
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Why was this guy super keen then weird?

He’s came over twice and we’ve had sex twice. He was to come over again and then cancelled and now texts me often but weirdly? He makes plans with no intentions behind them. He asks for me to send photos of my body etc...
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So I am right this is leading someone on?

I worked with a woman and yeah I know she isn’t interested my buddy says she just wanted to have a conversation. I reply with I rather not and it’s a waste of time because so many of them just flirt lead you on then play...
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How can people be like this?

Long story short, I had an ex [LDR] with whom I stayed 8 months for. Well the relationship was going very good for the first months. Then slowly I started recognising a toxicity pattern. Like DARVO , Gaslighting ,...
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Why do women overseas marry men from here when all men have the same expectations except men here are most likely to be hoes?

Men here don't want women to have choice. if all men here are like red pills men, like they only date a certain age, so if I was young, why would I be with an older guy who is old enough to be my grandpa or huge age gap?...
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