Why are women blamed for mens actions? can't men just be better?

[Anonymous]

Like if a man leaves her with a child, its her fault because she chose him. Even tho men can change and manipulate for years. Why are men allergic to accountability?

[OneViewpoint]

That is a legitimate question. I have personally criticized "women" in general for a lack of accountability. But, there is no doubt that a lot of men suffer from the same failure as adults. There is no excuse for those men.

[live2dance25]

It may be some men, but not all men. Some men do end up being deadbeats, but others blame women for things like cheating when they are doing it themselves too. It can be complicated, and not all men are to blame (but many can be). Hard to generalize.

[Asker]

That wasn't the question? i simply asked why we’re blamed for men’s problems.

[DryGermanGuy]

Just finish your highschool, kid. Leave adult problems to the adults.

[Asker]

are you one of the men?

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't blame anyone unless they really needs to be blamed!

[Asker]

Then the question wasn't for you.

[TonyMetal___86]

No problem, it's just not right that when we make mistakes, we throw it on others, that's a sign of a weak personality!

[Asker]

Tell that to the deadbeat fathers

[TonyMetal___86]

Believe me they know themselves...

[Asker]

yet they still blame the mom smh

[TonyMetal___86]

Because only a rare amount of people has the guts to say the truth at all costs!

[Asker]

So u also blame moms or u blame the dads?

[TonyMetal___86]

It's not about dads or moms, anyone can blame the other for the faults that they have done, it can be dads or moms or any other person...

[Asker]

i mean if the father left just because he got a woman pregnant…

[TonyMetal___86]

This won't be a father, more like an animal!
A father ain't a man who only makes a woman pregnant, a real father would hold the responsibilities of his actions and be there for his baby and for his woman...

[Asker]

True

[spartan55]

I think you have that backwards.

[Asker]

so you’re saying, you’ve never called or heard a woman being blamed for a mans action? Like if he leaves her with the baby, oh but its her fault cuz she chose him, u 100% have said that to a woman.

[spartan55]

I thought they banned you.

[Asker]

lmao

[Alex-Snow]

I agree with you 100% Has this happened to u?

[Asker]

Not me personally, but a lot of people i care about.

[Alex-Snow]

Wel it sucks, guys should not be like that

[Asker]

yeah sadly they are

[Daytoday79]

They should be

[Asker]

Sure dude, why do u think so?

[Daytoday79]

I just know guys who can't take any responsibility for the choices they make. They always point the finger and blame other people. Like they never grew up.