Do women blame men for everything?

[Anonymous]

I know this is going to start WW3 but...

What I notice is that when women post questions about their boyfriends it kind of comes off like the guy is to blame for everything. The girl has no idea how it has gotten to this point in the relationship except through the guys selfishness.

I've noticed that in friends too. That women complain about their men like they are just one step away from leaving him at all times.

I have had 6 boyfriends and never felt like they were to blame in all the fights. I know I did my part too. If something was wrong it was at least 50% my fault most of the time.

So my question is, do you think women put too much blame on men in relationships and not take their fair share of the blame when there is a problem?

Yes women never take their share of the blame

No I think women do take their share

I think men are just as bad at blaming women

Just curious about the answers.....

[SomebodyToldMeh]

Nah. I've never blamed a guy for anything, but I have noticed some guys blaming women for just about anything bad that happens.

Money problems, not being happy, the world ending, famine, losing their hair, 'having' to cheat with a hooker because she was too sick to give it, death, losing a job, ect..

Yes, I've heard ALL of them and more.

I've been blamed for my ex's mother dying.. I don't even know how that corresponds to me breaking up with him, but I guess it does.

I've seen some women blame guys, but never on an unjust scale. Then again, I'm sure there's guys out there who never blame unjustly either. (You people need to speak up!).

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STM~

[Anonymous]

generally in the life men take the blame for both people, especially in legal matters.

[Asker]

What do you mean by legal matters? Child support/divorce stuff?

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of times both people are at fault and/or in the wrong legally and only the male gets charged. for example if a girl is at a party and under the influence has consentual sex with a guy, legally its rape. for all you know the guy might have been drunk or buzzed. even though the girl wrong for putting in the situation and the guy is wrong for taking advantage (if he did). the guy get charged with rape and has to live the rest his life as sex offender. the list goes on

[Opinion Owner]

Legaly if she has alcohol in her system she can't consent. also if a girl attacks guy and he defends himself almost always the male (even though he's not to blame at all). also if a guy get into a fight with a girl legally both people should be arrested (self defense is legal fighting is not). although even if she anitiated it, usually only the male gets charged. the list is very long

[Asker]

Oh I never thought of that! I do actually know some friends where the girl and guy were drunk and they had sex. But he was kind of seen as a sleazy guy for doing it.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow some gave me a good rating. thought I going to have like 6 thumbs downs and be called a horrible sexist or something.

[Asker]

Yeah I thought I was going to get ripped apart for the question.

This site is definitely a hit and a miss. When you think people will be mad they do nothing....when you think you will be OK, people get mad.

[Kass1964]

"I know this is going to start WW3" That's one of the stupidest things I've ever read. XD

[Asker]

Really? Of all the things in life this is it? I guess you aren't very well read then are you?

[Kass1964]

Yeah, I'm not very well read, but I did say "one of" so it's not the stupidest just one of the stupidest. And it's stupid because it was overly dramatic and not funny.

[Asker]

Well I'm sorry you thought it was overly dramatic but I actually didn't mean it to be funny. I just have seen so many fights on this site from rude people that I thought maybe if I said something like that it wouldn't start a fight on my question. Yet....still someone started something. So I guess there isn't anything you can say to prevent rudeness. Rude people will always be rude I guess. Good to know.

[Kass1964]

I'm actually not usually rude. I'm just used to people being rude to me. I don't know why I even posted it. Well whatever, it was stupid of me, sorry.

[Asker]

It's OK. I now exactly what you mean. Sometimes people are so rude on the site that you come into it ready to fight, even when you don't want to.

Let's just say it was a bad day for both of us and move one. :)

[Kass1964]

Cool, thanks. :)