How come men put all the blame on the woman?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Not all men do and it depends on the context you’re talking about. Plenty of women also blame men for all their life’s problems. The truth is when people pick shitty people and allow them to walk all over them over and over again. Then hate the entire opposite sex even though they choose these people.

It’s one thing when someone is legitimately used by someone who pretended to be someone they’re not. But there are people who despite crimson red flags. Just date those women anyways or make relationships by sleeping around and wonder why it never ends well.

[Asker]

Most people aren’t going to admit that they are a bad person.

[Summeroflove]

Asker a LOT of bad people genuinely don’t believe that they are. They have justified and excused all the shitty things they have done or do.

I’m not saying there isn’t people out there who are evil people who love being sick and evil because believe me there is. Most of them won’t admit it either because admitting that wouldn’t get them what they’re wanting. Maybe there is some stupid evil people who admit to it.

[Summeroflove]

When we’re talking darker personalities (some worse then others. Some better at hiding it then others) there are the overt types. They just genuinely feel entitled and act the way they do and frankly some people allow it.

But there are many as well who can put on a very good performance. Pretending to be everything someone wants them to be and one day just take that away.

[Asker]

I believe people aren’t going to do you wrong no matter what you do.

[Summeroflove]

Do you mean are? Look there is the other extreme of that as well. Nobody’s perfect but good genuine people do feel bad for the things they do. There are people who expect someone to be perfext.

But good people don’t intentionally do things to hurt people. Good people feel remorse. Shame. Guilt. Regret. The bad people don’t unless it’s for themselves. If even that for more extreme cases

[Summeroflove]

But you’ll notice the narcissists expect you to accept them for their flaws. Accept them for their past bad choices because they always have a reason.

But they will NEVER do the same for you maybe in the beginning. But they will expect you to be perfect and live up to their fantasy imagination world they made of you.

Their life can be a mess. But yours better be together. Why? Because they need someone to use financially. For social status. For appearances. For security. As a bailout.

People who want genuine relationships aren’t like that. But sometimes empathetic men and women do want to help someone because they can really woe is me

[st8gangsta]

So you're basically saying men put all the blame on women which is a statement in question form. What if I don't agree that men put all the blame on the women? Maybe some do, but I provided that conditional addition to your question and you did not. You're basically saying ALL men do thing and you're so damn sure of yourself.

Loaded question. Grow up. Take your generalized man hate directly to the men that gave you reasons to have that hate and not to a bunch of people on the internet, where some of which has never done such a thing.

[Nikki1989]

Men love to shift the blame, and they rarely analyze their flaws and mistakes.

[slatyb]

Some men do that because they are unable to look at themselves.

[jahaims]

Why do you make inaccurate generalization? People pass blame to cope. They lack the introspection to hold themselves accountable.

[Anonymous]

Some people put all the blame on other people and ignore their part. It isn't a gender issue.

[Anonymous]

Same reason women started the hash tag #yesallmen

Look in the mirror princess your gender is just as bad.

[Shiprex]

Blame for what?

[Gaylordslav]

They cause all the problems

[Asker]

Who?

[AngryCarl2]

Everyone is blameless in their own mind.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Patriarchy

[WhitneySnow]

Projection