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This question is for both guys and girls. Read the details below and VOTE!

Let's say the ONLY way to prevent your children from starving was to dress like a lady and to engage in romantic dates with men. The more pleasure you provided the man, the more you would earn. Would you do it or would you let your kids starve to death?

And girls, answer as if you were married to this gentleman. Would you accept your husband earning money this way to feed your kids?

I've become strict this year and developed boundaries. My mother confuses it for bitterness. I don't think so. Is what happened to me, the reason kind people are harder to find?

Emotional bullies:
At school, they take pleasure in humiliating you, have little to no empathy. They expect you to forgive and forget, act as if nothing happened when greeting you. This is the same as cleaning someone's mess and be ok with it.

Fake friends and family members.
I once forgave a female bully after a physical fight. I fell for her fake apology, fake tears and handshake. I didn't realize girls don't function the same way as guys. She faked it all for a year and gave me a fake phone number on my yearbook. Certain members in the family are only there for you during your success and good times but not during bad moments.

Takers:
The take and take... and the more kind you are... the more they take. They have no shame in how they're acting. However, if you need a favor all of the sudden they're busy, ghost you or are unavailable. They are online seeing your message and don't respond back. If they need a favor, they expect you to reply back quickly and help them.

Cheapskates:
This is different from saving money. They are the types that buy fancy, expensive things for themselves (it's always about them) but nothing for even their own mothers nor your own b-day. It's always a discount ticket or a cheap buffet, never spoiling you once at least. They are always broke but yet they're wearing expensive shoes, pretending to be wealthy. Or they invite you to their house just to watch a movie but real date.

Liars, lovebombers and scammers:
My ex boyfriend. He asked for money ($1,200) and never paid me back. He was a bum, vampire boyfriend too, lying about future plans and never progressing things. I learned he was really a sociopath that took pleasure in all that. He really wanted to drain all my fertile years for the sake of it. He lovebombed like crazy in the beginning and it was all lies.

Scenerio:
You've lied and used someone; making them believe they're the one. You even go as far making false promises about the future, making them live with you, etc. You were their first, they trusted you and fell in love with you; with the false you, false hopes.

By the time that former virgin girl/guy finds out; you've already accomplished your goal. You've drained years (their best years) of their lives, years they'll never get back. It's a horrible experience they can't undo. You knew they were naive. You got no remorse either.

On a 1-10 scale, how mean is destroying someone's kind nature and innocence?