Then after 4+ years those girls want a family but Mr. Relaxer is still in Lalaland taking his time, got too comfortable and still manages to convince her to wait another 1-3 worthless years. Eventually those girls leave after realizing they've (besides sex) gained absolutely NOTHING. Any guy can give you pleasure and sex but few will actually take the plunge, risk it all and commit like a real man.
Seriously they do many girls take too long to realize that? This has nothing to do with feminism but from pure biology. It's been like that since we were humans. From a biological evolution, a woman has to find a suitable mate that'll commit and provide for her child.