Hello everyone! These days, the world keeps on getting sexed up, hook-up culture seems everywhere, it's really hard to get into situations where you can really get to know people, and sometimes more 'innocent' approaches to the world seem rendered old-fashioned. It's a bit discouraging, so I want to ask:
1. Are there 'innocent' girls these days, for lack of a better word? That is, girls who aren't into sex and revealing clothes, are friendly and polite, and want long-term (ultimately life-long) relationships based on emotional connections these days? Where do you go to find them? Can they be found in college, or is it more frequent at other stages of life? And yes, there are men who are equivalently non-sexual—this isn't a question of sexual hypocrisy.
2. An even more general question, are girls by and large interested in 'love' anymore? That is, that connection between two people based on companionship and deep emotional bonds, trust, and care, more so than any physical pleasures; perhaps eventually leading to marriage? I can't imagine that's not what everybody really wants at the end of the day—why does it always seem de-emphasized? And do girls have similar sentiments? How do you find this love? (I'm in college.)
I mean, obviously, we live in a big world and there are people who fit pretty much any description I come up with, so the answers to my questions are yes. I'm just making leading questions, because I want to hear more than that and what you have to say.
1. Are there 'innocent' girls these days, for lack of a better word? That is, girls who aren't into sex and revealing clothes, are friendly and polite, and want long-term (ultimately life-long) relationships based on emotional connections these days? Where do you go to find them? Can they be found in college, or is it more frequent at other stages of life? And yes, there are men who are equivalently non-sexual—this isn't a question of sexual hypocrisy.
2. An even more general question, are girls by and large interested in 'love' anymore? That is, that connection between two people based on companionship and deep emotional bonds, trust, and care, more so than any physical pleasures; perhaps eventually leading to marriage? I can't imagine that's not what everybody really wants at the end of the day—why does it always seem de-emphasized? And do girls have similar sentiments? How do you find this love? (I'm in college.)
I mean, obviously, we live in a big world and there are people who fit pretty much any description I come up with, so the answers to my questions are yes. I'm just making leading questions, because I want to hear more than that and what you have to say.
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