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Inspired by this question. I said this on there.

"I used to work as a security guard and was a bouncer for a few years, and almost ALL fights in clubs and bars were either started over a woman, or started BY women. A guy flirted with someone's girl, accidentally bumped into her, or a girl got angry with another girl. Hell, if I had a girlfriend, I'd probably fight to protect her, too. If you take women out of the equation, fights among men almost NEVER happen. Cooler heads tend to prevail.

Not with women, though! Women will fight over anything, and then even drag their man into the confrontation as well! Women will even start fights with men, throwing the first punch and thinking that man won't slap the sh*t out of her for it. I believe women are the cause of 95% of all street fights among men."

What do you think? Are most fights among men caused over a woman?

Hey everyone, I’m looking for your input and advice. ****not complaining, I just need help understanding bc I’m a dumb cis straight white male****

Am I leading these women on somehow?

I went through a breakup in September, with 0 bad terms between us, she was way out of my league both physically and as a human. I was and still am deeply in love with her, and I never shut the fuck up about her to people while I was with her (almost 2 years). We’re still super close.

about me (just trust that my self assessment is true for this exercise): I’m a lot of fun, around 30 years old, attractive but not active, so I have a dad bod but I’m really fucking funny and charismatic. I have a lot of beautiful platonic and meaningful female friendships that are strictly friendships. I’m a sweet heart and people are generally protective of me, because I’m depressed and having a hard time and they all love me more than I do. Aka, women see that and feel safe around me.

at the same time, I have a dad bod, my life is a mess right now, I’m openly still in love with my girlfriend, I communicate that “I’m not ready to date anyone right now.” I’m about to start attending both NA and AA meetings. I feel like somehow, me being at the lowest point in my life, is somehow attracting all these beautiful women who are initiating conversations with me and asking me to hang out.

I haven’t slept with anyone since my ex because I’m not ready for that, it would make me too sad. But, I’m a total flirt.
Anyway, one of my gal pals said that my behavior is confusing, because I’m vulnerable and texting with them, and still flirty. But I’m just thinking like, “surely my life is so shitty right now that no woman wants any part of the mess that I am right now.”

so why do you think I’m getting this new attention?