Do you think some women like to think men are dumb because they can’t tell someone is flirting because they can’t admit that they aren’t attractive?

[Anonymous]

I have seen and I don’t want to be mean. More unattractive women who claim that men are just clueless. When in reality they aren’t interested or have girlfriends.

I sometimes tell a woman’s flirting and just am not into her. So I just don’t engage with it.

Im not saying they’re flat ugly or anything. They’re just seem narcissistic and full of themselves to just think everyone’s going to be into them and if someone isn’t showing signs they’re into them ir must be a problem with them.

Other times…. If you aren’t direct. Someone can’t read your mind. What’s flirting for some people isn’t for others.

All women are different

[SwellStroke]

This here is something that I am terrible for. I can notice it happening in regards to others. But when I have it directed towards myself I am oblivious to what is going on. Not that I am doing this on purpose. It just happens that the way my mind works I have too many things that are rattling around up there at any given moment. :/ Though there are times that I don't think there is a possibility to not know what is going on.

To the point of no interest or being involved with another already. I haven't a problem when I have been able to catch it, being able to explain as to why I am taking the actions that I am, this way there is minimal chance in it becoming an overblown misunderstanding.

[Asker]

No I get it. If men and women would be more direct. But there is sometimes when a woman is clearly making a dude uncomfortable but he’s being nice.

But for some reason she thinks he’s the problem

[SwellStroke]

100% I have been in situations of this manner also. Especially in a few of the jobs I have been at. Currently having a few that have decided that I am likened to a therapist as I am unable at work to be "rude" in not wanting to be a part of either a relationship or using my inability to remove myself from the situation. Though I have been finding ways lately to remedy most of the situations.

[bamesjond0069]

I think many women are dumb asf because say I even do flirt... I flirt with girls right with my girlfriend standing there. I'm not necessarily trying anything. I just joke and laugh and smile all the time. I'm a fun pleasant person. They get all like wtf like I even give a shit about them. Nah you just happen to be the person in front of me in line or the cashier or whatever, chill the fuck out bro.

[jennifer_bloom]

I had more than one guy tell me I underestimate the intelligence of men. I also learned this myself when I offended a guy I was friends with - he turned out to be the smartest person ever when I saw how he analyzed every word I said.

[Asker]

Okay thanks for sharing

[RavVid]

Yeah. Men over estimate how complicated women are. And women underestimate how complex men are. it's more than a tight vagina.

[Asker]

@RavVid yeah and the fact that everyone is different and if you generalize everyone

[RavVid]

Yes some women think they are gods gift without a good basis. So do some guys.

[Asker]

I love people who contribute absolutely nothing. Bur want this amazing man or woman whose going to be evetyrjirn for them.

Why would someone a man or a woman who could pick anyone he or she wanted why choose you?