Why do some people enjoy brutally rejecting someone?

[Anonymous]

There is a percentage of people who intentionally lead someone on and flirt with someone. To get them to approach them and then reject them the worst way they can

Sure some misread the signs. But there is some who intentionally act interested and then act annoyed when they solicited them attention

If someone is bothering you and can’t take no for a answer. Tell them to fuck off. I also understand not being nice when someone comes up at a bad or totally inappropriate time or says something super creepy

There is no gender in this. There is men and women who do this. Number one. Even if you’re not into someone. Why kill his/her confidence? Don’t you want tjem to find someone who will say yes? Why make them feel shitty? Not that you have to say yes. Bur turn them loose easy (but also be clear you’re not into him/her)

[Anonymous]

It's not always for the rejection. Some people like the attention, especially if they don't get it often. Someone who gives a lot of attention makes them feel good, even if they don't like them. And since someone who likes you tends to treat you well, some people feel mean if they don't treat them nicely back, so they flirt to be nice, though it has the opposite effect.

Not everyone does it to lead them on, be mean, or to feel superior, though there are still those that do. Think of it this way, if a girl you didn't like romantically, but you liked as a friend, gave you a friendly compliment, wouldn't you be nicer to her afterwards, even though you had no romantic feelings for her?

[Asker]

This is true but some definitely do

[Asker]

You’re right though

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I think a lot of people get a power high from rejecting people. Especially manipulative people who fully understand the psychology of what they're doing.

[Asker]

They enjoy hurting them. It’s powerful to know they just destroyed someone on the inside

[BlueScorpio]

That's interesting you asked this cause I just saw a video explaining why some people are leading others on. I'll link it.

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/pIMCd2AYArQ

[Asker]

Thanks

[Faith18letsgo]

It makes them feel good about themselves.

[Asker]

Probably

[OMgwhat02]

Oh yes, its a trophy thing for those women (by the way men dont do this shit). I work with one of these chicks (super hot) and let me tell you every guy there has asked her out and has the same story. She baits em in, then dosnt even reply to that first text. Just think of it this way, you made her feel good okay? And i believe in non duality and cosmic consciousiness. Which basically means you are her. So you made yourself feel good in another part of existance. literally. Its not brutal rejection, think of it as dophime charity. Sure in this life you got rejected but also crossed another guy off your list! "Damm girl your pulling" her (aka your) friends are saying.(ps sorry for rant)

[Samarasaid]

10 years been led on by a man...

[Asker]

@Samarasaid yeah men do this too. There are some men who get lots of attention from women.

Who do this…

[Samarasaid]

Yeah and that sucks

[FilmGuy93]

You're asking why abusive and shitty people are acting abusive and shitty. It's because that's who they are as people.

[Asker]

True

[In_Trance]

What's the difference between a rejection and a brutal rejection?

No is no

[Asker]

This is true. But I mean someone shouldn’t be a ass about it. Unless the other person is.

Especially if someone solicits it

[NerdInDenial]

The attitude stems from entitlement and a superiority complex. The people receiving the harsh treatment are not humans.