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I have a very dysfunctional family, both my sisters got addicted to drugs, one still is, the oldest one has gotten better but she still got her moments. My other older sister is heavily addicted to meth and she smokes weed, my parents do nothing about it.

There are really bad quarrels happening everyday here and so I wonder, would you guys, as the boyfriend with a girl in my or similar situation, interfere in such situations? The verbal attacks are one of the worst that you can hear, extremely mean and cruel. Physical stuff happens as well, even from my father because he is weak to do something about her so he attacks me physically.

She's my sister only in name unfortunately. I truly cannot stand her.

I had to go anon this time. It's shameful.

So if you found out they had been on and off with a guy. The guy promised a future and just to sleep with each other. They slept with someone else. You’d kept this on the down low. You hadn’t really told friends you were sleeping together until it was a solid relationship you were being told it would be

People who told you this also were contacted by you years ago like more than 5 to ask of hed cheated on you. And years ago you had asked others to ask him to send back your stuff he took.

You contact girls you think it could have been to ask and explain and you expected you were pregnant so kept messaging to come up. The guy suspected it first. It will have been highly exaggerated saying she’s made up pregnant and acting crazy messages everyone to find out my relationship with them

If you found this out about your friend would you no longer be their friends

By meaningful I mean for potential marriage, having kids, etc.

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Personally I wouldn't - but then I've only been with 2 guys - because I see such people as untrustworthy, unreliable and unable to deal with life or a little bit of difficulty.

I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of them are unable to do more than minimal skills required jobs & only got lucky with better jobs than sweeping floors**.

Furthermore in my encounters, what I've heard, read, etc such people have bad personalities - immature, irresponsible, rude, ignorant, demeaning of others, etc., egotistical, short tempered, prone to childish behavior, not to mention oftentimes they're alcoholics and/or have issues with drugs - that'd make them very highly undesirable even if they didn't sleep around.

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**I've heard as example, including from family friends who taught what would become NHL players, that the average athlete and celebrity is far from being intelligent. The one who taught NHL players bluntly said they're fortunate to have been talented otherwise as they were struggling with simple secondary education. Ironically celebrity and athletes are notoriously unfaithful.