How to be louder in bed? what noises and things do guys like to hear in bed?

[Anonymous]

my man we haven't done stuff yet but he wants me to be loud. he said dont say vanilla oh yeah oh yeah. like what's not vanilla then. I call him daddy just thought f daddy harder faster would be enough lol. I usually just breathe really loud. But im scared im quiet in general. (im a virgin) how do I even scream/yell like I don't know what would that even sound like coming from me.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

haha, I love you!

I laughed a lot that you need our advice about how to moan or make sounds. You’re cute.

Also, I think you’ll get louder as you get a bit more comfortable.

I would also suggest make sounds for yourself, whatever excites and pleases you, not for him.

Be expressive! For yourself. Don’t do what is uncomfortable for you but try opening up to the idea of being yourself and enjoying it shamelessly.

Just like when you eat ice cream and you enjoy it a lot and you express. I, for example, moan sensually every time I yawn or stretch, I’ve noticed my coworker gets very excited when I do that haha, but I don’t do that for him, I’d do that if I was alone too.

[Moirine]

I thought I was the only who moaned when they yawn or sigh.

Good thing I'm not!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@Moirine Yep, I don’t know if that is an exact word or not, but I make that tiny sound, like a kitten, I don’t do it on purpose,

My ex boyfriend caught me doing it when I was laying in bed and just enjoyed rolling around and he told me I make that very sexy sound when I am relaxing and I guess I’ve caught myself doing that when stretch as well, and I hope my coworker doesn’t think I do that to arouse him haha.

[Moirine]

@lafemmefatale_1 yess! It's not intentional and my partner asked me to do it for him and I told him I can't because it's not voluntary it just happens!

I never thought much of it till it happened in public and this one couple gave me a bombastic side eye and questioned myself till I figured it out.

[Lliam]

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

Do not do anything you aren’t comfortable with, I can’t stress that enough! Your boundaries should be more important to you than any man or relationship, because they are part of who you are. If he can’t respect the small things, he will eventually demand the big ones, ignoring your voice completely. And if you are a shy, quiet, passive woman then that won’t be hard at all. You can have fun in bed, you can explore and step outside of your boundaries, but do everything within your comfort levels, at your own pace, with a man who can respect it!

[ManOnFire]

Wow. Well, if he likes that you're gonna have to stage a real show for him especially since you said you're quiet. I personally can't stand it when a woman is super loud in bed and making all those annoying porn-y moans and stuff. I don't think a woman has to do that to please me or enjoy herself. It's more natural and realistic to me when she's quiet in the beginning but as I'm getting her to cum and more than once, she will maybe give out a kind of holler or frightened moan, sort of like if she's about to fall off a cliff but I reach out and grab her.

[ArrowheadSW]

Yeah I agree. Those sounds that are overboard are annoying and sound more like pain than pleasure. Not pleasant to hear.

[ManOnFire]

@ArrowheadSW Right. Especially if it's right next to your ear lol

[Wonderingguyy]

You’ll naturally get louder the more comfortable you get, the more intense the pleasure, and the more times you have sex… don’t on purposely try to be louder, if you’re man tells you to, tell him to make you then… it’s on him, he should be putting in more effort to produce the results.
I personally like to hear moaning, cursing, my name, growling, daddy, sir, whimpering, all of it really. Just don’t feel pressured to say things you aren’t comfortable with, especially if you are new to all this.

[Marcuslrh]

If he knows your a virgin why is he asking this of you very strange things to be wanting when talking to a virgin he should be wanting to make it as pleasant as possible for you not for what he wants sounds like a selfish dude be careful entertaining that.

[Anonymous]

if you have to ask what to say, then he's not doing a good job...

and being a virgin, you won't be like that until years from now. you'll just be in pain for the first few times. the reason why you likely won't say much like that is because you're inexperienced and likely cannot express those things well and be open with sex because you have no experience. it takes awhile to build that trust with someone to be comfortable enough. I don't know man, just my thoughts...

[DarkWinterNights]

I’m usually a pretty quiet person in bed and prefer that. The screamers kind of make me laugh and kill the mood.

[Anonymous]

Assume he was the one that asked you out and hit on you

[normalice]

Gagging and choking noises.

[Anonymous]

😂😂😂