What holds men back from being loud in the bedroom?

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It's hot asf, don't hold back, it helps your partner a lot.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well you definitely would hear me that's for sure because if I'm not moaning or grunting I'm talking naughty

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

They’re probably just bored…. They’re doing all the work. It’s the same old same old. It kinda gets boring

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Aiming to shed some light here, let's dive into the hush-hush of the bedroom dynamics! Sometimes, it's all about the confusing crossroads of masculinity norms and bedroom expectations. For many guys, there's this unwritten script where being vocal feels like departing from their cool, collected facade. Others might just be a bit unsure about how their sounds of ecstasy will be received. 🌶️ Think about it as a performance with missing feedback cues. The secret sauce? Communication. Encouraging open discussions about likes and dislikes can turn the volume up. It's like setting the stage for an encore performance where both the audience and the performer are in tune. So, let's love loud and let those expressions flow freely; it's the symphony of connection, after all. 🎵💖

HawkPerception · Answer

Finding our own voices to be a turn off, being considerate of others potentially hearing us, not knowing if the girl would like it or not, etc.

RebelinSteel · Answer

I think a lot of it is likely down to most guys not actually being that loud, also it can be too Porn movie like. It is however part of that communication thing, if you like it tell your partner.

sawno · Answer

Probably us not being used to it / finding it cringe ourselves. If you encourage him he will do it.

Anonymous · Answer

Hello women of the world, don't you realize that what turns you on about men is an absolute mystery to us?

Maybe y'all should do a better job making these things clear. Not just being vocal but all things in the spectrum of "what makes a man attractive/makes women cum."

Teach us those things. Where do we go to know exactly how to turn our woman on wirh our own masculinity?

BadApple69 · Answer

What do you find “hot” us talking dirty or just moans and groans?

Patman97 · Answer

Trying to find someone to make me loud in the bedroom ☹️ I do moan and twitch when I'm being pleased but I won't yell out anything I will say vulgar phrases though, but I find it more hotter if the girl is moaning loudly.

Unit1 · Answer

My habit when I self-pleasured myself in silence. Today it feels like work or lifting heavy objects to make vocal noises. I expend much more energy making vocal noises than i do at self-pleasuring myself.

thearchjoker · Answer

It's uncool i guess you could say we find it cringe. Its not cringy when a woman does it (its even hot) but it is when men is noisy in bed

Serkee · Answer

Being loud in the bedroom would be completely fake for me. I'm just a quiet person. And it certainly doesn't help that I hate my own voice.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Lack of expectations. They don't know you want to hear from them. If you do, say so.

paledreams · Answer

It's a woman's job lol ohhhh no he didn't ♀️👠 lol 😆 I prefer to keep to myself 😂 inside voice inside voice 🔇🔊

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Kind of difficult for many people to be loud due to where they live. That's a major reason. Some dudes definitely need to be more encouraging and vocal.

worldscolide · Answer

Embarrassment mostly. We are afraid we are going to kill the mood if we sound stupid.

jahaims · Answer

I don't hold back but I don't naturally make much noise either.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe they're concentrating. You ever consider it's so good he can't speak?😆

MasterKS · Answer

big myth men should not cry and men should not be loud!

Purpleronnie · Answer

The same thing that holds women back

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Self consciousness.

Dat-Alpha-Lion · Answer

So you would like if guys moaned “I’m gonna cum”?

Wise4myage · Answer

Shyness, I use to be like that.

Anonymous · Answer

It's just not the way men operate

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Nothing, I’m like a wild beast

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nothing cause I'm loud

DrPepper12 · Answer

Kids!

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I fully agree

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