Where does my relationship stand?

[Jumpin4blue]

I’ve been with this guy for 8 months. He’s already said I love you before. We got into something and he’s been really upset with me the past two weeks. We’ve been barely talking and not seeing each other. I talked to him about it 4 days ago and basically said are we good or do I need to move on? His response was I don't know right now. I’ve just been doing my own thing and worrying about myself. 3 days went by and he finds out that my brother had passed away from suicide. Yesterday, he literally messaged me all day from moment of waking up to going to sleep. Being there for me talking to me about it. It’s about 10:30 am and I haven’t heard from him. Would he really have done that if he didn’t care or want to be with me? I feel like he wouldn’t have talked to me like that and might just still be upset and need space.

[StarWarGirl]

Telling I love you doesn't mean it's for permanent. It's bitter fact that yes feelings change. I don't know what is the whole picture so i am not eligible to judge this relationship for you that where are you both or what's happening what's reason for this kind situation is or what is reality. You have to find it your own. Take your time ask for him to give some time to you and have a talk you both. You both ask questions from each other that why is what why someone is behaving this way or what's bothering who. Express your feelings that this is affecting you or your relationship like this. Have a proper serious discussion. Don't run away. Yes questions could be tough or bitter to ask answer could be bitter unpleasant too. Have discussion with mind that yes you are going to accept whatever it is. Go with open mind and discuss like two adults. then you both decide where are you.

[strateguy632]

in the big picture, that support wasn't part of relationships so move on to another partner.