Search Results: how do you learn to trust

Why I Gave Up Online Dating

We live in an age of security and safety that has somehow made our world more paranoid and schizophrenic than ever before. The access of instant information at our fingertips has also somehow increased our uncertainty...

Chief16

Editor Age: 33

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Health & Fitness

How come my brother is so skinny when all he does is sit at his computer and drink pop all day?

My brother has been skinny for his whole life, when he was 10 the doctor just said to let him eat anything he wanted to eat because he was so skinny. So now, 4 years later, we have a teenager who has learned bad eating...

Anonymous

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Twenty-One Tips For Successful Online Dating

I am 62 years old. I have used online dating sites three times in my life: 2007-2008, 2015, and 2017. I am not looking for hookups, FWB’s, casual sex, ONS's, etc. I want to find a woman for a long term relationship 1. who...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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How likely is it that a woman's girlfriend knows her feelings towards a guy?

Assuming a close relation between them, how likely would you say that they are sharing the guys that they like (even guys in their circle of friends). I ask this for 2 reasons. 1) There is a woman in my circle of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Need help with trust issues?

So I've never done this before but Il try and shortly exsplain some of my story: So my father was abusive in an violebt way, when me and my brother was younger, hed hit us and our mom then our mom left him and we started...

teenager2001

Xper 4 Age: 25

"Believe the Victims": But What If They're the Liars?

*False name A number of years ago, my friend Lisa* called me to ask me a very sensitive question. “What happened when you took Tomas* to court for raping you?” I was taken aback. Tomas was a guy I had “friend-zoned” who...

Ozanne

Editor Age: 51

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Entertainment & Arts

Specialized Photos

This Take was long overdue, but here it is now. So a good buddy of mine had recently left after asking me to create my own photography Take since he's a photographer himself. If you haven't already, try checking out his...

Lopezz1999

Editor Age: 26

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Trusting Fiance?

How can I learn to trust my fiance again? he loves me and I love him, but I feel like he's always secretly talking with girls on his phome

nouraalkaabi

Xper 2 Age: 34

How would you react if you learned your boyfriend/male friend was raped by another man?

I don't divulge this information to ANYONE. And never plan to. But I'm worried about what would happen if my partner ever found out that i was sexually and physically abused by my mother's husband. I have a friend who...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Technology & Internet

When Someone's Questions Get a Little Too Personal: Tips on How to Protect Your Privacy Online

If you are already security-conscious and don’t need to read this, please feel free to respond with your own tips and experiences to help others. And thank-you to @dragonfly6516 for suggesting this be written....

Ozanne

Editor Age: 51

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I've been talking to a girl that just got out of a long-term relationship and I need help! Is she lying to me?

So I started talking to this girl while she was in a year long relationship and to make a long story short, we both developed feelings for each other, she told her boyfriend at the time, and he broke up with her a few...

Anonymous

(30-35)

In western culture, is the avg girl raised to demand material wealth?

Humans use shortcuts to judge each other. This is normal since getting to know someone before making judgements requires effort, self awareness and practice. But I have the impression that a large part females in western...

SirTwinkletoes

Xper 4 Age: 33

Society & Politics

5 Useful Life Lessons to Help You In Life

Most people seem to think that you need to have experience in order to learn how life works. While I don’t think it’s wrong, I do think that you can acquire the same amount of wisdom just by being smart enough to...

Galaxy21

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A Good Long Term Relationship Requires. . . Part Two

This is another update of a myTake that I posted perhaps a year ago. For some reason, the original version of this myTake did not stir any interest among users and I had only one reply posted. I don’t understand, because...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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A Good Long Term Relationship Requires...

Some users on this site don't want a LTR and they are quite vocal about their intentions. I understand that not everyone sees a LTR or marriage as a desirable goal. Some people would not be comfortable “tied down” to one...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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How do you know the difference between genuinely liking someone or feeling attached to someone as a means to be self-destructive?

I don't want to give out many details but something happened to me when I was young that has altered the way I seek out potential partners or bonds with other human beings. Due to the experience, I don't know whether or...

RedThread

Master Age: 38

Improving Attractiveness To The Opposite Sex

Judging by the "How do I look?" section of this website, the popularity of image-based websites such as Instagram and Snapchat, and the direction of Hollywood and advertisement campaigns these days, appearance is not only...

Idonthaveausername

Influencer Age: 31

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The approach: How to get her back into my life?

I have a close personal friend that I have known for four years. She is the next-door neighbor of my brother and sister and we started hanging out during birthday parties, barbeques, and adult parties. At the time we met,...

PaulSidney

Xper 4 Age: 50