Search Results: ignoring the looks

Confusing guys behaviour?

I have been friends with this dude for about a year and we go out as a big group with other friends usually. There is a bit of flirting between me and this dude, and a lot of hot and cold behaviours from him, which so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

What do guys like about me?

I don't understand why I keep attracting stoner guys. Now, I know you guys are going to say it's different when they're high, but they're the same way when they're sober. I hooked up with this one guy, and for context, he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex trying to blame me for everything, litterally everything is my fault apparently, an she never did a thing wrong?

Roughly 4 weeks ago I found out my girlfriend of 3/4 years has been chilling with her ex, I don't know if she cheated physically or he was just in the friend zone waiting, but since finding out, All my ex girlfriend who I...

Libra9292

Xper 1 Age: 33

What kind of women do players/womanizers avoid?

There is a guy who always likes to surround himself with women and they seem to enjoy his attention since he is charming and very good looking. With me however he is very distant and indifferent even though I am prettier...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do people make up rumors, and why are others so quick to believe and spread such rumors?

Why do people make up/spread rumors? This is going to be a long story, so bear with me. But in the past month, I have heard three different rumors about me dating my coworkers. I went to a social gathering with some...

abbyjgriffin98

Xper 6 Age: 27

What makes girlfriend's pass on looks to other guys knowing her S. O is absent or would just ignore. What's really going on in her mind?

What it is like for a girl to live in such relationship when she does all such things and continueto promote herself as divine? What to do to end such nasty tension things, should one confront or just end it? In a...

he-takes-a-part

Xper 6 Age: 30

Was my boyfriend too strict or she had a toxic behavior?

Our week-long sailing trip with my boyfriend as the captain on his dad's boat turned into a wild ride thanks to one friend's girlfriend. I'll provide you some context-examples When we had to choose dishes to share at a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Final Goodbyes?

I moved states away from home to live with my fiancé and since I’ve been here our relationship has turned bad. No fighting/arguing but it’s like I’m living with a roommate. His grandma lives with him too, and since I’ve...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Why won't he leave me alone?

I posted here earlier but the guys replies were disgusting, so I wanted to post about this again. The last couple of months a guy at work kept asking me to do something just me and him. I kept saying no and when he left...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was my boyfriend too strict or she was a toxic personality?

Our week-long sailing trip with my boyfriend as the captain on his dad's boat turned into a wild ride thanks to one friend's girlfriend, let's call her "I." Ι'll provide you some context-examples Right from the start,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is a 23 year old messaging me?

The last couple of months a guy at work kept asking me to do something just me and him. I kept saying no and when he left on his last day he still just asked me to hang out with him. I didn't say anything because I felt...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

The False Promise of Looks: A Surface Deep Liability

In many online circles of unhappily single men and women, attractiveness is heralded as the barrier to romantic access and relationship success; and whilst it is true that an individual's appearance determines how...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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He [M20] ignored my [F19] message for 11 hours and then proceeded to post on his Instagram story. Why would he do that?

He knew I liked him in grade 12, he flirted, but nothing ever happened. Fast forward 2 years he sent me a follow request on insta after he found out I was in med school (he also wants to go to med school.) We...

Tinybano

Xper 2 Age: 22

What’s wrong with this guy so I’ve been trying to ignore him but he will constantly try to get my attention and he is currently taken as well?

The fact that he is taken I don’t see now he can be interested in me so I might be overthinking. But for instance like today I was clocking in and he happened to be there he says my name I pretended like I didn’t hear....

Anonymous

(18-24)

The guy I like was talking to my friend whilst he was staring at me?

The guy I like we are both ignoring each other, but talk here and there when necessary. He’s very nice and polite, gentle when it comes to me. When he’s near me, he acts as if he wants to talk to me but is hesitant and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys really like it when you message them first on dating apps?

There's this guy who looks at my profile quite a lot who I think is cute but he never messages me. Could it be he's shy? I'm unsure if I should message him. I'm scared I'll get ignored I don't even know what to say

Anonymous

(25-29)

Could it really be I'm so pretty I scare guys away?

This sounds so arrogant but I promise I'm not. I'm actually very insecure and cry a lot about how I look. I'm convinced people are lying to me most of the time especially because of the extreme compliments they give me I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a guy look at me from a far, but completely ignore me/act like I don’t exist when we’re closer?

There’s a guy that I’ve seen kinda lingering around me during the day and he won’t really make eye contact with me or even act like I exist when we’re close enough, but I do see him looking at me from across the room...

Anonymous

(30-35)