Girls, Why won't he leave me alone?

[Anonymous]

I posted here earlier but the guys replies were disgusting, so I wanted to post about this again.

The last couple of months a guy at work kept asking me to do something just me and him. I kept saying no and when he left on his last day he still just asked me to hang out with him.

I didn't say anything because I felt sorry for him cause it looked like he didn't have any friends.

I only told one person that I work with.

I deleted him from Facebook.

I didn't hear from him for 5 days then yesterday, Saturday morning at 12:15am he messages me saying:

"Oi, my name"

I didn't respond. He messaged me that night and asked if I wanted to catch up for a drink.

I then blocked him.

I know why he messaged me that early, so ignored him.

Even though he's gone, should I tell someone at work?

I didn't want to say anything cause his dad is also CEO in the company.

The dad is a nice person and I didn't want the dad to be embarrassed.

I'm stuck in a awkward situation.

I have kept the messages he sent me.

Should I now tell this someone?

I'm 38 and he's 23

[Anonymous]

Through your post I have found that he is trying to reach to you and you wants to keep distance. But maybe you have not told him in clear words directly that you don't want to talk to him or have contact. I know it must be difficult also he should understand it already when you have blocked him. But still my suggestion would be first you should tell him in direct words that you don't want to keep any contact with him instead of telling to anyone else about this. If still situation doesn't get ok then you can reach to his dad as you are telling he is CEO and good person so better he handles things related to his son instead of telling to anyone else about it it may only cause your Boss to loose his reputation in the eyes of staff so better your boss handle it his own.

[ta-ra]

With people like that, you need to be very blunt. Tell him you're not interested. And if he keeps doing it, you need to let his dad know. For your own safety.

[JoannaSmith36]

Just keep ignoring him and he won't bother you again.

[Anonymous]

Being a 23-year-old male, you have to be very blunt and upfront. Men in their 20s tend to be very immature, so be brutal.