Why won’t my ex leave me alone after he broke up with me?

[Anonymous]

My ex broke up with me 5 months ago. I begged for him back the first month and he didn’t want to. We are both seniors in college. I found out he was with other girls and lying to me about it. That hurt but it was whatever. So I’ve been trying to move on, BUT ever since then, he won’t stop reaching out. “We need to talk” and then nothing comes out of it ever and I’d find out he was taking another girl on dates. Every time he would come back I got let down. So I blocked him on everything a few weeks ago because I had enough and then he’d call me off other phones and try to apologize and we’d get into another fight. He is still blocked but he will message me on other phone numbers or random apps like LinkedIn asking to talk and that he has something to say. He said merry Christmas to me and that he’s sending me a letter. I don’t respond to any of it because I gave him so many chances to apologize and get back together. What does he want from me? It’s making me go crazy and I’m trying to move on. Why won’t he leave me alone?

[Kate090]

F**** him. Please don’t talk to him ever again and move on. You know you deserve better and thank God you found out sooner who he really is. The trash took itself out. I will tell you why he won’t leave you alone, because you allowed him back after giving him so many chances like you said. He’s starting to play a mind f**** with you and see what he can get out of you. Thats insulting that he thinks you’ll keep falling for his BS. He’s not going to change so don’t ever give him another chance ever again. Remember this quote “fool me once Shame on you, fool me twice shame on me!” Never give a man the chance to hurt you again.

[RoccoJones]

One possible explanation is that you haven't used terms he'd understand. Blocking him and ignoring his calls *should* have sent the right message, but maybe you need to use your words. Once you've exhausted that option, you might need to make it official. You're in college together? It probably has a harassment policy. Talk to someone about it.

[qwert1234]

Maybe he realized grass is greener on your side.
Maybe his plan b failed and wants to go back to you.
Maybe he genuinely misses you.
Maybe he wants free sex.

In any case, if you already made up your mind about ignoring him, just block him on everything so you could have a peaceful life.

[Anonymous]

Missing those blow jobs