Why won't my ex ever leave me alone?

[Anonymous]

My ex and i broke up last year in July. He cheated on me. I haven't seen him in person since we broke up however he keeps calling and texting me. It's been a whole year and i have blocked him from several numbers he's created. He keeps texting me every now and then that he will do better and get his life together so we can be together again. He knows im seeing another guy and has been asking me about him and thinks that I blocked him because of another guy.

[rosemilk]

he seems very pushy and weird to still be trying to contact you constantly through different numbers when it's been well over a year since the break up. actually that's really stalker-ish. i'd stay away from guys like that because nothing good ever comes out of it. also, he'll never change.

but yeah, whatever you do, i hope you aren't responding to any of this. just keep him blocked and on read. if you really want to go the extra mile, you'd have to change your number but that's an inconvenience.

[Oliverlogan263]

Bro, your ex sounds crazy clingy. I don't get why she won't leave you alone already when you clearly want nothing to do with her anymore.

Chicks be trippin' like that sometimes. Maybe she's lonely or still wants attention from you even if she messed it all up by cheating. Or maybe she's just psycho possessive - doesn't wanna see you move on.

I'd say straight up tell her again to lose your number for good cause you're done. Block any new ones she makes so you don't gotta see her lame attempts to hoover you back. Don't give in to any pleads or start feeling bad - she made her bed!

Don't be afraid to threaten getting a restraining order if she keeps stalking. Once she sees you ain't playing, hopefully that'll shut her down. If not, just ignore and let her keep wasting her time.

Keep living your best life with your new chick - that'll show the crazy ex you're long over it. Stay strong bro, you got this!

[Nikki1989]

I have disabled messaging on my phone. Solved that problem.

[Anonymous]

Just keep blocking him and DO NOT reply.