For two years myself (female 24) has been in a “situationship” with a (male 22). He would constantly accuse me of being un loyal yet used to tell me he didn’t want me but expect me to be loyal to him. He would name call calling me a bitch, a hoe etc. If I wouldn’t do something for example if I did not show him a red Snapchat of where I was and who I was with he would block me for day/weeks sometimes even months. He knew exactly how badly this effected me due to me having attachment issues. Instead of unblocking me he makes new Snapchat or Facebook accounts he’ll one day all of sudden appear in my friend requests but it’ll be a new account each time.
He started telling me that he loves me, and that he wants a future with me but he can’t because I’m not ready for that because I’m un loyal and only want to hurt him. The thing is I have never gave him a reason to feel this way and he has stated multiple times prior that he never wanted me. I have met him twice the first time was awful he was horrible to me. Nipping my legs, throwing things at me and shouting giving me abuse to the point that I was crying. Accusing me of turning my phone away from him to speak to guys. He told me to never speak to him and blocked me. Day after he went into a relationship with someone on Facebook (for around a week) I was devastated.
A month later he readds me, I ask him about his girlfriend and he said she was a mistake and a weirdo who got obsessed and ended up adding herself into a relationship with him. But that he’s nw single. Silly me believed this found out months later it was all lies and he’s still be sleeping with her and they were practically together whilst telling me he wants me. I saw him in town when I was with with my male friend a few weeks before I found out about this other girl and he went to attack him.
He now keeps making new facebooks which I keep blocking. Now fake accounts keep adding me which I keep blocking. Why won’t he just go away if I’m not who he wants?