I don’t find this to be true. Me and my ex narc broke up recently and he doesn’t not have new supply. We have to work together and my coworkers notice that he is still paying attention to me when I’m not looking, and making subtle irritating noises around me to try and get my attention -something that use to work before but does not work now. They are also saying he looks like a train wreck.
I’ve also noticed narcissists get very obsessive and repetitive with certain things. For example a few days ago, I joked about a girl that he use to follow on Instagram, and that night he went and followed her on both of his accounts and started commenting on her photos. Something he wouldn’t have done if it didn’t mention it, as if he planned to do this to get a reaction. The girl still hasn’t given him the time of day. My coworkers say he doesn’t even want that girl but is using her to get me to go nuts.
So is this him trying to find new supply but failing and therefor trying to control me by staring at me? A couple days ago we blocked each other off everything, and I have completely ignored him & 0 eye contact.
I’ve also noticed narcissists get very obsessive and repetitive with certain things. For example a few days ago, I joked about a girl that he use to follow on Instagram, and that night he went and followed her on both of his accounts and started commenting on her photos. Something he wouldn’t have done if it didn’t mention it, as if he planned to do this to get a reaction. The girl still hasn’t given him the time of day. My coworkers say he doesn’t even want that girl but is using her to get me to go nuts.
So is this him trying to find new supply but failing and therefor trying to control me by staring at me? A couple days ago we blocked each other off everything, and I have completely ignored him & 0 eye contact.
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'Trying to control me by staring at me'... yeah, don't think so...😂
a true narcissist would have you back by now
What do you mean
your narcissist sounds weak
He’s extremely weak and insecure. We’ve only been not talking for 2 days. Usually I would have reached out by now to reconcile if he’s blocked me but I have not and have blocked him off of everything, something he is not use to. He’s one of those narcissists that isn’t able to quickly find supply so he’s been coming to work looking extremely drained and miserable. My coworkers say give him a few days before he can’t take the fact that I’m paying him 0 attention.
Yes weaken the narcissist!
I have to admit though, I hope he does try and initiate conversation because I really want to be civil. I don’t want to have him blocked on everything, and I don’t want to avoid eye contact.. I just want to be peaceful.
that is what he will want after he gets over himself
True , I think so as well.