There's this guy who looks at my profile quite a lot who I think is cute but he never messages me. Could it be he's shy? I'm unsure if I should message him. I'm scared I'll get ignored I don't even know what to say
He is definitely interested in you (something is at the very least catching his eye and making him think), potential possibilities are;
1) He's shy - scared to message and get left on read, or blow his chance, get rejected etc.
2) thinks your out of his league - wants to get in shape then message you, or self conscious about something etc.
3) you're a back up - you're cute but he's testing the waters with someone currently, or looking at other potential candidates etc. This one is harsh, and I don't know how true it could be because I've been single and not looking for about 2 years now, but it's just another potential reason I could think of to give you an open minded perspective.
4) you live too far or too close - living to far could be an issue cause of time and distance, living too close could be because if a first date or message wasn't good, could make awkward situations if you run into each other.
5) get his money right before messaging you - could live with parents or something, so it could be weird to try to "bring you back to his place", until he gets a place of his own so he's waiting (to not look like a loser to you).
Others can feel free to add to this :)
On a dating app? Where women have the most advantage ever because there’s literally 1000 dudes for every women on there, Heck yea dudes like it. If he doesn’t respond that’s 100% confirmation he don’t like you.
This is why I feel dating apps are a bad idea because you have to explain in like a few sentences all that you are as person and be like an 8/10 to actually have a chance usually.
if you're interested in him, and he keeps looking your profile (not sure why, kinda weird), then just message him and start talking. no need to second guess yourself or self doubt. just do it.
Boys do, men would want to catch you not the other way around
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Thats's the ONLY women I respond to, are the ones that message me first.
Yes I will look at a woman's profile, sometimes multiple times but I won't message her either. Most women on dating sites simply do not want to date ANY guy and ignore all messages. You learn this very quickly as a guy on dating apps.
Welcome to the world of men. Good thing we just don’t give a fuck.
You’re just scratching the surface. I’ve had women message me first with some lame ass message. I responded with some lame ass message in kind. Then they quit. It’s, sad, watching their resolve diminish and sink back in to their stereotypical woman programming.
Yes of course guys will like that. You said you are scared you will get ignored, so I am sure he is scared for the exact same reason as yours.
He is afraid you will ignore him. If he is shy then you need to take the first step here.
Nobody would look at a profile a lot without a reason,, I am sure you won't regret texting him
Of course they do. Guys fear rejection. He must like you if he keeps looking at your profile. I don't think you have to worry about him rejecting you. Go for it.
I have never met anyone that has ever used a dating app, so I have no idea.
We rarely get messages on these apps, and on top of it, it's always our job to start a conversation, and keep it going. If you do it for us, we certainly appreciate it, and it shows interest.
mostly girls that text first are either scammers or only fans chicks who want to seduce you to buy their stuff
He probably have mother issue and you are attracted by him thinking he might need a help?
YES MESSAGE US FIRST
Yes.
We don't mind!
What dating app do you use?
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