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Final Goodbyes?

I moved states away from home to live with my fiancé and since I’ve been here our relationship has turned bad. No fighting/arguing but it’s like I’m living with a roommate. His grandma lives with him too, and since I’ve been here she’s been $ hungry and always worried about what I do, when I do, how I do it-like I’m a damn child and I’m not!

All I wanted to do was focus on our goals and what we need but he isn’t doing that. He’s okay with being stressed out and waiting at his grandma beck and call. There’s no dates, rarely any quality time because she calls him for everything (even while we have sex).

I’m honestly tired of saying the same thing, expressing how I feel, explaining how I feel like the second option. He shuts down and never wants to speak on the issues.

I’m done. Lately he’s been basically ignoring me. Not even saying hello once I come home from work (yes I try to greet him and be affectionate but he just says get off him-he says it’s a joke but…just feels like I’m being neglected. So today I realize it’s over. I’m done talking. I am saving to go back home and I’m never looking back.

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Soo updated I ended up expressing how I felt regarding him dismissing me and lack of everything and he says and I quote “ Honestly I'm not happy. Also don't care about celebrating anything anymore. I'm tired & have no words”.

Now when I asked what was wrong yesterday he said nothing…yeah I’m done !
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