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In 2020, I met this girl online. She had never had her first love and never dating. She never even had a male friend before she met me. She was perfect.

We talked for months, even exchanging "I love you's". It crushed me when she rejected me when we finally met in person. I wasn't her type.

She met a new guy and is expecting to marry him in April. I still dream about her all the time in my sleep.

I am thinking, this guy gets to be her first everything. Her first love, her first kiss, she is going to lose her virginity to him... EVERYTHING! I am really dreading her wedding day. I can't take it anymore!!!

This one is taken from an old Reddit post. But that was 2016, though. I wonder if this question will hold up. Back then, the results were 43%-57%.

The white girl is a 5'9"/176 cm tall, ten-out-of-ten blonde with DD's. Basically, any one you'd consider to have a perfect female body. But she is very ghetto and thuggish, like Bhad Bhabie or L'il Tay, but a grown woman. She's attractive enough to model for Playboy, but unapologetically drops N-bombs, likes to freestyle rap, and won't ever shut up about weed. Basically, she's Kendra Wilkinson or maybe Iggy Azalea (hey, anyone remember Iggy Azalea? 2014? She used to be a thing! No?)

The black girl is 5'5"/166 cm and a 6 or 6.5 out of 10 with a fit body and a kind of cute face. Pretty normal looking to most, and youthful and cute enough in makeup. Normal body, B cup breasts, 140 pounds. But she is very uptight and serious and also a staunch Christian. She's a traditional conservative female, political pundit and successful in her career making YouTube political videos and guesting speaking on FOX News. Basically, she's Candace Owens or a less-attractive Stacey Dash.

WHICH WOULD DO YOU PREFER? YOU CAN'T SAY "NEITHER."

I am really struggling right now with severe depression. I had to go to the hospital last night.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend, although I had an online thing with this girl back in 2020. She was perfect at the time. She never had a male friend before me, never dated, never been kissed, and was still a virgin. It completely tore me apart when she rejected me when we met in person the first time.

I ended up having a ton of alcohol last night and almost blacked out. I ended up calling her mom and she was frantically trying to help me over the phone.

The thing is, I am so overcomed by disappointment over that girl. That new guy she is with gets to be her first everything. They are getting married this year. Who knows, they may have decided to get married sooner and are already married. I still talk to her mom, but I am afraid to learn any new details.