Would a guy fake being in love with a girl?

[Anonymous]

he was so sweet and cared so much about me we talked for hours and everything was perfect then we had a fight and some misunderstanding in both sides we don't talk now for 3 weeks , he didn't even try to contact me ,, i send him happy year text that looks like broadcast to all my friends , to test him he didn't even open the message , what do you think is happening and do you think he was pretending to love me and never cared about me?

[slatyb]

Presumably he enjoyed your company or he wouldn't have spent time with you. Maybe when you had the fight he learned something about you that he didn't like. We weren't there so we have no idea.

[Asker]

should i call him?

[slatyb]

How long did you date before the fight? What was the fight about?

[Asker]

we dated for 3 months ,, the fight bec he was to busy to communicate with me he replied after 2 days he have been like that for 2 weeks we had a fight about it then we ended the fight after that a complete silence for 1 month no talk..

[awkward_author]

He may have liked you at first, but now he's not interested.

[Asker]

how can i win him back?

[awkward_author]

I don't think there's anything you can do at this point.

[Xoxocutekitty]

He Liked the attention (distraction) but had no intention of maintaining a relationship.

[Asker]

then why care in first place,, we dated for 3. months then that happened all of sudden

[Anonymous]

you made a big mistake (not talking for 3 weeks), more tine will kills you, so if you care about hime, call him directly and correct the misunderstanding

[Asker]

i tried and gave him a gift via common friend for my first salary,, he told the common friend he would call me but he didn't.. also why doesn't he call me why should i initiate? i texted him in newyear he didn't reply,, iam completely lost and don't understand what is happening..

[Asker]

he also liked my photo during our silent period but never calls me ,, shouldn't he call me?

[Opinion Owner]

it's anothet mistake you made, you should be the one who gives him the gift, if you make this, he will forget everything and will appreciate you, as you think, he also think.

to have the final suitation and know well if he want to continue with you or not, just call hom or met him face to face to solve everything

finally, in the relationship, it's better to forget who will start to talk and forgive the othet as supposed you're one person

[Asker]

i wanted him to talk to me so i sent the gift via this friend , he told him he would call but never did.. i kept waiting i sent him the happy new year text but he never replied 😅 like i never existed,, our fight bec he communicated less than normal he told me he was busy i believed him but could someone be busy for 4 days couldn't spare 5 mins for me.. that was the fight about,, yet he liked my photo but never talks ,, shouldn't the guy always make the first move ij any relationship,,.. and if i called him what should i say?

[Opinion Owner]

as a men, we always not thinking and analysis the matters with the same way you think.
yes we can be busy for 4 days, a month and forget everything if related to work or whatever, its normall for men.
for gentle, ofcourse men should have the first move, but iam not knowing what is the level of fight you made.
finally if you love him, just met him to know from his reactions what's his suitation and delay the call.

and about teeling you what you should say, just answer my question, do you love him?

[Asker]

just a silly fight that he should be more available he apologised after word and we stopped talking ever since this fight ,, i meet him accidentally 3 days ago he was talking normally like nothing happened when others were in the room when we were alone he just looked at me with silent eye we kept silent for 2 min then someone came and took him out of the room i thought he would talk to me that night but he never did ,, i love him from the bottom of my heart i tried to act am normal too but deep inside i wanted to cry and hug him and tell him i love him... but idont know what happened to us..

[Asker]

how could he not talk for 3 weeks !! like i didn't exist in his life he couldn't spare 5 mins in his busy work life 💔

[Opinion Owner]

the right solution, try to met him again face to face and make your point of view clear enought, then focus on his eyes and make him notice this, then if you feel the warm of the love in his eyes, just give him a long kiss and i think everything will be ok after thim

[Asker]

but why didn't he call me? doesn't he miss me like i do? it kills me that he didn't call even in newyear i thought he would sent a text i kept waiting he did i sent instead he didn't answer... i really really love him ,, i will call him tomorrow but am afraid i would end up broken if he didn't share this love and wa only faking love..

[Opinion Owner]

please dont call him
meet him face to face to have the right answers with the way i mentioned in the last comment to avoid losing him
forget everything and forgive him to able to make him loves you as you imagine
is its possible to share picture for him and you via message to told you another concern ( if available)

[Asker]

oki i will try and give a silly reason to meet him ,, I don't know how to send pics jn this app but what is the other concern?

[Opinion Owner]

please dont give a silly reason for meeting him, give him a serious reason, or meet directly without any previous alignment
to make this working

send to me your name her to add you
or click on me name and send adding request or message

[Asker]

as an update a common friend told me the day i came to meet him ,, i had a phone call he followed me secertly to hear who i was talking to but still hasn't contacted me

[Opinion Owner]

he likes or loves you.
So dont miss these opportunity and meet him as soon as possible.

keep me always updated.

best of luck

[Opinion Owner]

recommed for you for easier way for communication as a fried, contact me directly on my whats app number (00201151058885)

[Asker]

really? what should i say how do i end this silence? and why doesn't he even try to call me to end this silence 💔💔

[Asker]

thank uu so so much for your help❤❤❤

[Opinion Owner]

its my pleasure to help you, will be alwats with you till giving me the final update that you speak with him and your relation is very good

contact me via whats app for easier way and if not suitable just tell me.

Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

for your inquiry about (why he doesnot even try to call you ) i think its a way that guys use to make the girl he likes care more about him and its a nature in the guys

and for ( what you should do for ending the silence) , recommend when you meet him, told him that you're annoyed from you are away from each other and you missed your conversation (not more than this at the current time )

[Asker]

am so sorry i can't contact strangers 😔 so deeply sorry 😔 i tried and talked to him via phone call to soften things between us , he seemed interested but we didn't meet unfortunately.. i think its now his part to talk to me i did everything i could if he doesn't call i would suggest he is a player right?

[Opinion Owner]

if you like or love him, suggest to make last step ( to know where he is at any time, then meet him and speak normally by focusing in his eyes) aftet this if not calling you or his suitation becomes more better than right now, leave him and find anothet one cares about you.

[Opinion Owner]

my thought is to your best in the relation as you can , to be satisfied if not having the good luck and not regret.

[Asker]

the last time we meet for 5 min before others take him out of the room we made a small eyecontact he was lost not like before ,, he held the contact for a while then shifted the conversation with someone else then left I don't know i feel very lost why he gives me mixed signals now and why would he not show any sign for the past month that he miss me or even moved on ,, when we talked today via call he was interested and kept asking questions then he hang up bec of work the call lasted 10 mins,, thats why i feel i should leave him give a sign if he is interested he would call right i am the one who broke the silence he should continue if he doesn't call i would move on the call was about a problem i had in work asked for his help but he clearly know i could ask anyone else but instead i went to him

[Opinion Owner]

i think he likes or loves you with 90% and do this to get your attentions and makes you think about him all the time, also doing the mens nature as not asking or paying attentiin for everything about his girl to gain the points or her.
do you have a sex relation?
i think to do the last step by have a meeting with him forced to know what you will do

[Asker]

shouldn't he anything to prove it 🥺 no we didn't kiss or have sex ,, i will give it 2 days then if not i will force a meeting with him as you say or send him a message tell him how i really feel bec am afraid of saying ehat i feel face to face ,🥺💔

[Opinion Owner]

rexommend to not wait anytime more and force a meeting.
can i know from which country you are

[Opinion Owner]

i remember an important thing right now, did you remember the time which i asked to have image for you and him, if you able to swnd to me here via uploading it or any website like wetransfer. com and send the link to me in a comment or with anyway, will give final advise and also mention your country
this feedback will be right 100%

[Asker]

i think it won't make a difference,, i think he is in love with someone else and am just stuck in the past even i tried everything... i wish he had crossed a mile for me even though I crossed the ocean for him ,, thanks for your help i really really appreciate it..

[Opinion Owner]

you are always welcome for aby advise.
just only asked you for last thing, try to meet him with forced way for last time, then decide what you will do.

please give me his mobile number or his account on any social media olateforum to mention to him that some beautiful girl loves him.

only wants to make you happy and not regret

[Asker]

he called me last night but he was not the same person i used to know he ended the call fast even though I was friendly with him and i knew he was doing nothing,, he didn't even say anything about the silence period he was talking about random stuff then he ended the call the call lasted 5 min but he mentioned a girl in this call i knew she is new coworker so i guess he left me for her ,, i wasn't good enough for him and he was just playing with me till he met her.. i i don't believe how easily he played by my feelings... i really can't thank you enough you are a really really great person i can't thank u enough thank u for listening to me you helped ❤❤ i guess meeting him won't make a difference bec if he loved me he would said anything in the call or just apologise or anything the call was just making sure the problem was solved , i think he was just trying to be friendly and not sound as a bad person after all what he did..

[Opinion Owner]

iam sure that you are a great person and you made me proud to help you, always will be there for anything you need, if we become a friends, its honor for me, if not, also will be honor for me, you can always finds me here or on whats app (mentioned my number in previous comment).

last thing
if you want to try again, just do it, you can use the gealousy way, by showing the beauty you have (for your shape for at least 1 month or always, find also another guy you cosidered him a closely friend and ask him for help as acting you like him in front of the guy you like), then wait for his reactio, this finally will decide if he likes you or not.

best of ouck in your life.
always will be here for your support.

[Asker]

its my honor for me to become your friend ,, can't thank u enough... oki i will try for the last time and pretend am seeing anyone to get a reaction,, i really hope it works but deep down i know it won't because of he loved me he would have done anything i kept all the doors open for him... thank youu so much really thank uuu

[Opinion Owner]

i decided to take a challange for me to make you reached to his heart and your guy say to you ( i love you), so give me this opportinuty and follow my directions till the end.
if you agree and accept this, please add me on whats app or another social media plateforum to be able to hqve a direct and fast communcation, if you have any concern on this, no problem, but really really want to win this challange.

[Wise4myage]

He's a player?

[Asker]

i don't really know

[BarryLiverstone]

Did you have sex?

[Asker]

no we didn't

[Asker]

we prefer sex after marriage

[BarryLiverstone]

Maybe he lost interest after the fight

[Asker]

what should i do?

[BarryLiverstone]

Move on. If he wants you he will contact you