Search Results: being nice or interested

Interested or just being nice?

I met here three mutual friends & she a pretty cool girl then I noticed one day as we started to acknowledge each other at the gym, that every time I would greet her with a fist pump her hand would shake not once but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If i’ve never had a partner, should I settle for less?

i don’t think i have high standards but i’m nearly 17 and haven’t been able to find a partner. the things i find a requirement in a guy is : • keep a convo going ( have to be able to connect with him not just talk for the...

sofiiaagnzz

Xper 1 Age: 18

He Keeps the Conversation Going, But Never Initiates—What Does It Mean?

I’ve been texting this person for a little while, and while we seem to click pretty well, I’m not sure if he’s just being friendly or if there’s more interest on his side. We always have good conversations, but he never...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is she still acting interested, even after rejecting me?

I met this girl years ago as a freshman in high school... never talked to her that much but we were acquainted. This year we both got the same job at a new business. We grew a LOT closer throughout the year and a few...

brotato333

Xper 1 Age: 18

Should I give up?

I’ve been talking to a guy for close to five months now and nothing has changed. He moved to my city in which we matched on a dating app and everything was going great! We started hanging out, etc. but then I started to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Aiming for the girl that likes bad boys when you are not. Worthy or not?

Recently, during a company party, I (man, 28) interacted with a co-worker (female, 26) which I haven't interacted much before. Being both pseudo-alcoholics, we got pretty drunk and spent a long time chatting, during which...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, how to know if a girl is being just nice or actually interested in you?

I always struggle to identify the difference between the two. I'm a bit of a nerd and have never had a girlfriend. I just met an undergraduate student from the mathematics department where I recently joined as a grad...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, How would you prefer to be rejected when the guy likes your personality but isn’t interested physically?

I’ve had this happen a few times. I’ve met a girl who has a good personality but I’m not physically interested. I’ve been on the other side of this situation more then once. I personally prefer to be rejected like this:...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did this guy I went on a date with ask me about my fashion sense lifestyle and how I attract men?

I need some advice please to know if I am being messed around by this guy and having my time wasted. I have been on two dates with this guy on the dates it seems really awkward and forced there’s no chemistry there. It...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Women, here are red flags in a man from a mans point of view

Trigger Warning: If you've had a bad relationship before that was so bad it caused PTSD than perhaps you shouldn't read this and should just turn around now. I give you permission to pretend you read it and leave a...

NathanOlipop

Xper 2 Age: 36

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I'm 20 and went on a date with a 34-year-old guy I've been texting and sexting with. I had good time but I'm not sure if it's alright?

So there's this guy I met on a dating app almost two years ago, we texted for some time, sexted a lot too, I mean after some time it became boring to me but he was really into it, he was sending me nude photos etc Then I...

baddiska

Xper 4 Age: 22

Why would his behavior change in a good way at me when he already had a date with someone else?

So this guy from work he was very difficult to talk to. He was very shy, awkward and also did not started much convos. Yet he was sweet when he talked to me. I developed some feelings for him during the weeks that I got...

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

She mentioned cuddling and us going on picnic? Does she like me?

I told my friend who I expressed romantic interest in said she liked to be cuddled up around the fire after I said it was cold. Why did she say that? Were also going on a picnic and uses 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 emojis more when I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever lusted after a woman and how did you stop?

There this girl and unfortunately I’m not just listing for her I’m in love with her. I caught feelings for her and then my attraction towards her went up but like 10000s levels she already very attractive and her body if...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

Why is it so common for people to pass up decent catches for people who are walking red flags?

I seriously don't get it. Even when there isn't a decent catch involved, I swear that a huge percentage people either have chased, or are currently chasing after people who are just giant walking red flags. Unpleasant...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it really that bad to hold a genuine grudge against someone?

I had to cut my hair off years ago because a girl I knew maliciously poured gorilla glue in it. I have never been able to grow it back out since. My hair regularly falls out now, so I don't think I'll ever have another...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

What is the fate of an Indian female immigrant?

Here’s my guess: She gets a nice job but is shocked to see NO attractive guys are interested in her. They seem to only want a fling and being a virgin, she doesn’t want that. White girls don’t reject the Indian guys out...

Babygirl_S

Guru Age: 29

Is this a red flag? Or just someone that genuinely knows what he wants?

So this guy I’ve been talking to about two months. We text every single day, and he calls me every single day. We have phone calls about the most random stuff at least for an hour and a half every time. The thing is, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)