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Basically, this is a condition common among non-white people. Usually these people have deep seated self hatred of their race (though they may not realize it) and often put white people on a pedestal and see them as superior. Often, they look down and don't associate with people of their race and exclusively have white group of friends. These people in a lot of case (mostly women) will put blonde highlights in their hair or even dye their hair blonde in order to appear white as possible. Some people will even go further and wear contacts so their eye colour looks green or blue.

As expected these people will only date white people and state it is just preference. Often if they are having dating problems, they will make complaints online about it and be insistent that they will only date white people and no one else. And when they do have children, they will often bestow this obsession for white people onto them and cause massive self loathing.

Just for the record it is not racist if you just find certain ethnicities physically attractive.

Physical attraction isn’t a choice. Race is also a bullshit victim excuse some people use who can’t handle rejection (if it was due to looks). If a minority girl isn’t physically attracted to me because I’m white then she’s just not attracted to me. I might be disappointed but it’s just how it is. Not her fault because physical attraction isn’t a choice.

However if you do find someone of a different race attractive but won’t even give them a chance because of unfair prejudices that’s a different story. It’s one thing if you took the time to get to know them and you just found them incompatible. But quite another if you intentionally stayed away despite finding them attractive otherwise.

Anyway I have have dated outside my race plenty of times. But often found these women brought up racial differences more than I did. I had an Asian ex girlfriend who would say “ah white people” occasionally when she was frustrated with me over something. It didn’t bother me the much because she was young, beautiful and in love with me for a long stretch. But I rarely brought up race when dating and if I did it was usually positive (she was a good cook).

But still I truly believe women consider race more when it comes to dating then they will admit (white girls especially won’t admit that).

Again I do NOT think it’s “racist” to admit you don’t find a certain ethnicity attractive (but respect them otherwise). But I think women are secretly more picky about this.