Why Do Some Men Shame Teenage Girls When Asked About Age Preferences?

[fonduegirl]

a person on quora said,

An 18 teen year old is like a painting. They might be beautiful to look at but they are quite often one dimensional. At 35 you are starting to have more than just good looks. I was at a place that was having a national cheerleading competition and the cheerleaders were all very cute. The moms who had put on 15 or 20 pounds since their cheerleading days were amazing looking. When you gain a little weight in the right places and still look physically fit that is something to see. The moms were in the 35 to 40 years old range.

could have just said he wants to date his age and teen girls don't appeal him but

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His outlook is very misogynistic. Standards for men are so low that people are defending him for NOT being a creep. It's laughable.
I don't like older men. Maybe I should write a similar take sharing my thoughts? Hmmmmmmmm

[4ngelic]

because their age preferences dont include them most likely. actually had that experience before lol. like i remember when i was 18 there was a dude who was triggered that i prefered 18yos boys over his age (i think late 20s or early 30s forgot), like he was one of those incelly redpill dudes who thought there was no way an 18yo girl could pick a boy her age over older men because 18yos are immature and broke and skinny. i actually saw a rage post by an incel on that around that age too about how 18yos are bitches for picking 19yos over guys his age

[Apple1996]

I will never understand men and the age things. They act like a woman's age determines her beauty even tho it doesn't

[fonduegirl]

Precisely!!

[Apple1996]

Yeah like I was ugly af at 18. Didn't get decent looking till recently

[fonduegirl]

You were always apple of my eye

[fonduegirl]

As in beautiful

[Apple1996]

Awh thanks 😊

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I've seen lots of 30+ yr. old women that are beautiful. I'll never understand it either, even though I know their answer will go with "Well, it's about reproduction and having a good mate."

[fonduegirl]

@PBandJ_Nerd that's selfish and gross mindset

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Yeah, unfortunately there are some guys who think that. Thankfully not all though.

[fonduegirl]

@PBandJ_Nerd yeah

[Tim2nice]

What he probably meant by one dimensional is that their horizons aren’t broadened because of the limited life experience. There are of course exceptions to this, but I remember until me mid twenties most girls just went to cinema or McDonald’s or Burger King for dates and listened to just one type of music.

[fonduegirl]

Stereotypes.

[236color]

I think that's what he said, perhaps a little more wordy than necessary.

[fonduegirl]

Yeah

[wiltingrosepetal]

It feels like people are getting offended at that on behalf of me 😀
As a member of the 18 year old army, yeah we are one dimensional. We don't know how the world works. Just out of highschool with zero street smarts, we're just getting started. Plus, at the end of the day, I'd reaaally prefer if the men in their 30s came up with (somewhat insulting) rationals for dating us, than if they actually dated us. Please, don't hit on a person fresh from highschool. We don't want it 😅

[fonduegirl]

You can skip dating teens without dissing them.

[wiltingrosepetal]

I really... really don't consider this a diss 😭 I can't imagine any of my friends would either. We're self-aware, we get it. We are one dimensional teenagers

[wiltingrosepetal]

Okay bro, I saw your update. I'm not defending him for 'not being a creep'. I'm just saying what he said is pretty spot on. We don't know how the world works, we are CHILDREN. Good on him for seeing us that way. 18 year olds are preyed on for their naivety and treated like innocents to be deflowered. I'm glad he pointed out that we are one dimensional and pretty damn stupid

[nastyb]

When i was 13 years old, I had guys checking me out and coming over to me. I went on school trips where me and my classmates got ogled by grown men in their 30s. Its pretty disgusting but you gotta realize men don't think with their brains. they think with their penises. If there was no law against touching children, trust me, these men will be fucking underage girls.

[Nice222]

Most 35 year old males that are still single are stuck. Their dating pool is either 18-20 year olds that aren’t interested in them or 20 something’s that are either in relationships or party girls. Or 30 something’s that have kids and going through divorce or child custody issues.

[fonduegirl]

Maybe they shouldn't have wasted their younger years womanizing.

Just a thought.

[Nice222]

That’s true!

[rachel776]

he doesn't understand fine art, art paintings are definitely not one dimensional

[Alex8736]

Some of these people have too much free time on their hands smh

[fonduegirl]

Agreed lol

[NathanDavis]

because we're idiots...(generally speaking)

[RealMarek]

Weird. I knew plenty of women my age during my teen and young adult years who were not “one dimensional.”

[Guido]

He is entitled to his opinion. You don't have to agree with him. Everybody has opinions and some will agree and others not. You might agree with some things a person says but I guarantee you will not agree with everything they say. This is what makes us individuals with independent thoughts.

[dreamstar72]

When you can’t have what you want, you find a reason to why you can’t have what you want.

[Billlewis]

They're just jealous because they can't date those young women themselves.

[fonduegirl]

He clarified that he doesn't want to.

[Billlewis]

Alright then maybe he's a 'Wilford Brimley' type, who was, in many ways, a predecessor for the self appointed 'Morality Police' of today.

[fonduegirl]

I don't get it

[Billlewis]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilford_Brimley
Wilford Brimley (1934-2020) was an elderly busybody, both onscreen and in real life.

[fonduegirl]

Give me the highlights

[Billlewis]

Just like our lying, deceitful 'journalists', as well as our self appointed ''Morality Police', Brimley made it his business to stick his reddened bulbous schozz into everyone else's business and decide what was acceptable and what wasn't. This ridiculous practice is becoming more and more pervasive with each passing year.

[fonduegirl]

Oh. 😨

[Billlewis]

Always remember, the world revolves around three things, two of which are likely reasons for the old mens' response to the young women's dating habits - money, sex and the biggest one of all, that nobody talks about -- jealousy.

[fonduegirl]

Wise words, Bill.

[OddBeMe]

Well that’s rude. But not quite wrong in contrast experienced humans. It’s not the 18 yr olds fault. They’re just getting started.

Also I’m just jealousy is involved, you freakin youngsters.

[fonduegirl]

It is rude! Especially since nobody asked him why he wouldn't date a teenager

[OddBeMe]

You’re not wrong. But I think women walk into the double standard trap more than men cause it.

[CovetedDUCHESS]

I hate it too. I liked older men when I was a teen and some people had a problem with it and still do.

[shortster]

As long as you like adults; there should be no shame in age preferences. Assuming that you are an adult.

[TheShadowReturns]

I need you to message me (I cannot). I wanted to have casual chats with you again. That's why I created this account.

[Kaneki05]

At least he's going up not down?

[fonduegirl]

Like he should.

[fonduegirl]

Do you want me to praise for being a decent person and not being a friggin predator? Lmao!

[Z1pTD]

Lol who TF asked him?

[Jamie05rhs]

That's not shaming. He didn't say anything mean.

[fonduegirl]

Called us too thin and one dimensional 🙄

[Jamie05rhs]

That's just his preference. 🤷
Preferences are not evil.

If someone had a preference for thin young women, would you be offended by that as well?

[fonduegirl]

He said that as a negative thing

[fonduegirl]

Damn bro, YOU cannot read between lines

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 He's not judging them personally. He's just saying they haven't had enough time to grow up yet. I'm sure the women he's dating now were once those people. But they matured.

[fonduegirl]

But why? Why go there? Imagine you go to ice cream parlour and you've detailed explanation on why you don't want vanilla scoop and vanilla scoop is not good enough. Doesn't make sense? Lmao.

[fonduegirl]

I don't think anyone would go like "you're a man in 30s and you don't want to go out with a teenager? well, explain yourself!"

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 Young women turn into mature women.
But vanilla doesn't turn into chocolate.

[fonduegirl]

Thoughts on the update?

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 Yes; you should write that Take. :)

[fonduegirl]

Thanks James

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome! :)