Why do women shame men for liking younger women?

[Anonymous]

Honestly whats the deal.

[nalaa]

Well my aunt was dating someone's son once and the father was quite upset about it. And she said men her age want women in their 20s, so she doesn't have another option but to sleep with their sons. So there's that.

In reality though I think most people wouldn't want their kids to be with someone old enough to be their parent. That is 15 years or more difference.
And I think most people inherently see something wrong with relationships between old and young people. And that's ok and normal. Seeing someone in their prime of reproductive health with someone who really shouldn't have kids doesn't make sense. Most people naturally find it gross, because there's no biological reason for them to be together.

[Cmasterson]

I think the only thing that is shammed is when they're not of age, because when a person is a teen compared to an adult i'm not talking like an 18 year old liking a 17 year old, as we grow older even if the age difference is up to 5 years, there so many things we go through in those 5 years that mentally some people aren't on the same level. There are the rare ones but still. If you're a 30 year old man liking a 20 year old, its not shammed its just a lot happens inbetwee, but not much.

[anonymous83]

It depends. If you're old enough to be her father than you deserve to have your @ss kicked. Mainly because really young girls do not know what they're doing, and can be manipulated by older people into very unhealthy situations. For example: 17 and 47... no bueno

[Anonymous]

Personal experience with unwanted advances from much older men, usually. Often the guys who do this - especially with minors - are kind of overbearing and don't heed her personal boundaries, leaving a bad feeling behind.

[Anonymous]

women sometimes do this , it kind of depends on the girl guy was trying to date and exact age diff , I agree jealousy could be in play , or older women didn't understand why he found younger women more attractive. women tend to be more emotional and physical reasons maybe not as high on the list sometimes.

[Asker]

not as high on their list in their older years but in their younger years then damn well cared.

[MadeInAmerica]

I don't know too many women that do. Only the ones that get left for a younger women do because they've been burned. Most men have wives or girlfriend that are a year or two younger.

[CHIEFCHI333]

When I was 7 I fell in love the deepest I've ever felt love, Now I'm always attracted to pure souls, young, full of love, in this society a girls my age are very promiscuous & unloyal & I've been in two relationships where some hoe activity took place & ruined it, this only fortified my interests. I'm 18 now.

First girlfriend was 18, I was 15... 2nd was 15, I was 16. They had both been sexually molested at a young age & I feel after intercourse some of the demons they carried transferred over... multiplying my dark fantasies.

-opinions?

[Anonymous]

Jealousy, pure and simple. It's hypocritical, because women avoid honest, hardworking, good men while they are young, in favor of the players and bad boys. Then, when the good men get status, money, and general appeal in their 30s, those same women get pissed because those guys can date women ten years younger. You made your bed, ladies. Time to lie in it.

[MrAtticusLebowski]

You need to clarify the question. Apparently some of girls here think you're implying Pedophilia man. Which it seams you're not.

[Asker]

damn that sucks.

[tyber1]

I think it's because when they 'age out' they are less desirable, but really women do this to men too with their preference for older men.

[Asker]

so i should just ignore them?

[tyber1]

Yeah I mean they don't see anything wrong with preferring older men so I don't see why we should feel bad for preferring younger women. Just be careful around women who are near high school age.

[BellePepper]

This is like asking: "why do people not like pedophilia?" Like you REALLY can't work out the answer? You're that morally bankrupt?

[PizzaPrincess]

Age differences are fine until someone's old enough to be the others parent. Especially when said person is young.

Otherwise you do you.

[CoolSky01]

Look life is tough and people are rough, do your thing and as long as you're not hurting anyone and not taking things to the extreme what people say dont matter much, go for what makes you happy.

[nalaa]

well what people are shaming, mostly IS the extreme.
No one says something if a guy is 5 years older, even 10 years, but 15 or 20 years, totally different story

[CoolSky01]

@nalaa if he's 45 and she's 20 ... thats extreme and kinda wrong so yeah...

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Lol because insecurities, or perhaps irritation over why men hurt themselves with younger women when older women are right in front of them, mature n shit.

[Anonymous]

Jealousy. Age is one thing women can't change. That, and most women fear getting dumped for a younger woman by their husbands after they've had kids and gained weight.

[Afrochick]

If it's more that 10 years i personally find it disgusting and borderline pedophile.

[Anno_Domini]

A 50 year old guy dating a 35-40 year old woman is not a pedophile.

[MyUsernameRules]

@Anno_Domini Exactly. This is one of the dumbest things I've ever read.

[orphan]

show me where they're shaming men for liking younger women...

[Anonymous]

They just can't handle getting older. They're insecure and can't deal with it.

[BertMacklinFBI]

don't women want older men? lol

[evenlift]

Envy.

[BertMacklinFBI]

bahahhahaa

[bcromartie]

How young exactly?

[Asker]

im 29 i like women 18-23