I stopped talking to my partner but he acts like he doesn't understand?

[Anonymous]

I made clear hints about issues in our relationship multiple times but I feel like he doesn't want to care or listen, I also felt like that he just really likes to mentally challenge me all the time it's like he doesn't want to take a break from all the crap that goes on half of the time. Like when we go out on a date it doesn't matter who pays but the fact he ditches out on food cause he knows I'm a foodie person but he is always showing his preference in the relationship and I feel like that why does he want to be with me at all?

I stopped saying I love you to him even though he wants me to desperately say it to him again but I feel sick to my stomach saying that.

If I'm behaving off then he does the same but for me I'm giving him the ultimatum that he can go and I won't ask him to stay but I feel like he just sits there...

[HollyK21]

So why don’t you just be done with the relationship? You’ve done everything I could suggest, talking to your partner, explaining what’s wrong, trying to fix it but it’s ultimately the same result time and time again. You can’t turn him into the man you need in your life right now, so let him go and make room for a guy who is already equipped.

[Anonymous]

Ok well first of all dropping hints doesn’t work w men. If you want something or something is wrong you need to speak up. Men don’t read women’s minds as much as you’d like to think we do. Spence you need to move on. Stop hanging around, you’re a grown woman. Move on.

[spartan55]

😂 "he can go and I won't ask him to stay" is not an ultimatum. I don't know wtf you are trying to do. You think saying that to him will get him to break up with you? Lol... no.. don't think so. Here's an idea: how about YOU break up with him?

[jahaims]

"I made clear hints". You are immature and bad at communicating

[ThrillSeeker01]

I think you should move on. You deserve better than that.

[Anonymous]

What is it with women and giving "hints" just be direct and communicate like an adult. It really isn't that difficult.

[spartan55]

They can't/won't do it.