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Long story short, my ex didn't believe our daughter is his, dna test came back and proved it. We were still being respectful to each other during the whole time but barely talked since he didn't want to get involved until a dna test.

Now he wants to be involved which I appreciate for our daughter.

At 7 months pregnant I moved back home (from us to Europe) to support my daughter and make the best life possible for her having no support from him. I informed him about everything.

Its been almost 2 years since we broke up , saw each other and maybe talked like 5 or 6 times... until recently when the dna came back.

He wants to come out here and spend time with his daughter which I am actually happy that her father wants to be involved. We live in a one bedroom apartment and he wants to stay with us. I told him I would like him to get a Hotel room. we had barely any contact for 2 years I just dont feel comfortable with him staying here. He can spend as much time as he wants over here but I would appreciate him not to permanently stay and have a room to get back to. We never lived together and I just kinda like having our own little place for my daughter and I.

He got all mad at me saying he is already spending a lot on plane tickets and he can't afford a hotel as well. He says I would be keeping him from his daughter as he already lost so much time. I dont want to stand between them but dont want to compromise our safe space for a man I haven't seen in 2 years.

A little info background.. me and my partner have been together for years and now we have a baby girl
I gave birth over a month ago

Anyway so I have this friend
she's been in multiple relationships before
But she recently broke up with her ex boyfriend of 3 years
And now she's hooking up with different guys etc

When i gave birth, she came to visit the hospital and gave me chocolates and flowers

But thing is… now she's pregnant?
She was so happy to tell me

She said she's going to keep the baby even when the guy she hooked up with blocked her and disappeared

And the guy that she hooked up with.. is the same nationality as my partner

The thing is.. why did she suddenly want to get pregnant after I gave birth?
Why didn't she get pregnant with her ex when they were together for 3 years?
Is she copying me? Or what

Hi guys
So my and my partner has been together for years and now we have a baby
I gave birth over a month ago to our daughter

Anyway so I have this friend
she's been in multiple relationships
But she recently broke up with her ex of 3 years
And now she's hooking up with different guys etc
When i gave birth, she came to visit the hospital and gave me chocolates and flowers

But thing is… now she's pregnant?
She was so happy to tell me

She said she's going to keep the baby even when the guy she hooked up with blocked her and disappeared

And the guy that she hooked up with.. is the same nationality as my partner

The thing is.. why did she suddenly want to get pregnant after I gave birth?
Why didn't she get pregnant with her ex when they were together for 3 years?
Is she copying me?

I met a guy online YEARS ago, and when we 1st met, we were very much in love with each other, considering we were kids. We were dating for a few months online (lived 3 hours away, but he didn't have a car to visit, and I felt uncomfortable with the drive), so we never saw each other physically besides video calls/pics. I met a guy at my undergrad school and dropped him to pursue that relationship. But we have contacted each other at least once a year since the initial split to catch up. Each time I would hear from him, he would be with another girl while I was in the same relationship. He joined the military, and I was very excited to hear from him after he was finished because I still had feelings for him.

After he left boot camp, he informed me that he was stationed across the world without a choice and that we would figure out how to communicate best since there were time differences. Around this time, my dad passed, so I was in a bad mental state, but we were planning on seeing each other since he was going to move to a different location shortly while I was going to the same city for a school conference. He disclosed that he cheated on me with another girl by getting her pregnant (miscarriage), and he couldn't see me as promised due to military circumstances. I was devasted and told him never to contact me again. I spied on him via social media to see what he was up to, and he got engaged to another girl.

Recently, he kept popping up on my social media, and I decided to message him at the beginning of this month to check-in. He was thrilled I reached out. He told me that his engagement had been canceled, disclosed that he loved me, and said he'd pay for my flight to see him physically. I got weird vibes about it all since he didn't fully close the ex-fiance chapter and even had sex with her while we were discussing our future. I cut it off yesterday because he did not show that he changed. Do you think I did the right thing?