Is my friend copying me?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys
So my and my partner has been together for years and now we have a baby
I gave birth over a month ago to our daughter

Anyway so I have this friend
she's been in multiple relationships
But she recently broke up with her ex of 3 years
And now she's hooking up with different guys etc
When i gave birth, she came to visit the hospital and gave me chocolates and flowers

But thing is… now she's pregnant?
She was so happy to tell me

She said she's going to keep the baby even when the guy she hooked up with blocked her and disappeared

And the guy that she hooked up with.. is the same nationality as my partner

The thing is.. why did she suddenly want to get pregnant after I gave birth?
Why didn't she get pregnant with her ex when they were together for 3 years?
Is she copying me?

Yeah she's copying you

Nah she's not copying you

[antelope51]

At your age, it felt like everyone around me was exploding estrogen and babies... it was a tough time to be a woman who didn't want kids. But, I stuck to my guns and now more women can express this opinion without getting jumped on for it. But even the b. f. noticed all his coworkers/friends were exploding with kids for a decade or more before it settled down. I'd say it's just your age, but it could be that "all the women in the harem sync up" thing too where one of you sneezes, you all have a baby.

[stratford]

She's not copying but she is influenced by you.

[strateguy632]

1st..