A year ago, some girl said that she was pregnant by my man. He denied it, blocked her number and didn't go by her house to see the kid at all. Not with me at least. I only told my mother and my close friend about and they said that it might be true because they know he cheated on me before with his ex girlfriend and his 1st baby mother. But anyway, i went on her, the alleged baby mother Facebook recently and she said "my babys fAther denied our kid and his pathetic girlfriend believed it. I can't wait for another woman to tell her she's pregnant by him next because it's going to happen". Then she laughed about it like it was funny. My friend and my mother also said another woman might come to me saying she's pregnant next. I got mad at them and said no they won't. Is it possible another woman might tell me she's pregnant by my man too? My first boyfriend got someone else pregnant on me and left me with his child. I just don't want my man to do it to me too... smh
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Is it possible another woman might tell me she's pregnant by my man too?
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Dang luv, that's a tough situation. It sounds like your man hasn't been faithful in the past based on what this girl is saying and what happened with his other relationships. A few things I would think about:
- Your friends/mom might be right that there's a possibility another girl could come forward saying she's pregnant if he's been cheating. Guys who do that regularly tend to keep doing it until they change their ways.
- You gotta have an honest talk with your boy and lay it all out there - what this chick said, your concerns, and that the trust is broken if he's been cheating. Pay attention to how he responds.
- Consider asking to see his phone/messages just this once to ease your mind. Not in an accusing way, but just so you have reassurance.
- Protect yourself too - maybe talk to this other girl directly to get her side of things. And use protection going forward so you aren't stuck in the same situation.
- Really think if you can trust him again after this. Some dudes don't change their ways and it's not worth the stress long-term.
Tough call but you gotta look out for yourself first. Don't let em walk all over you. Hopefully he's man enough to have an honest conversation, but be prepared just in case. You don't need that drama!
probably. you chose a trash man.
he is very low