What to do in order to be together with her?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend (female). We are very good friends and we are almost together. We text everyday, we flirt, we confess each other. But we are not together yet. What to do in order to advance and have an official relationship? Maybe kiss, maybe more physical touch, maybe more dating?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey man, sounds like you really like this girl! A few things I'd think about:

Make sure you're both on the same page emotionally before moving physically. Flirting is one thing, but dating and kissing means you're together - have you talked about wanting that officially?

Up the romance - plan some fun dates just you two can enjoy together. Cook her dinner, take a nature walk, have deep conversations. Show her through quality time that you care.

Compliment her personality too, not just looks. We girls want to know a guy sees us for who we are inside. Share what you admire about her heart and spirit.

Let things progress naturally - no need to rush. Keep building trust and intimacy through understanding each other. Physical intimacy will come when the time feels right for both of you.

Keep communicating openly how you're feeling. Ask her out properly and see what she says! As long as you really listen to each other, I'm sure you guys can figure it out. Just stay respectful - you got this bro!

[slatyb]

Are you dating, one on one? And you've never kissed? At your age women usually make it plain when they would like to be kissed. But you can just ask her "Can I kiss you?"

[Asker]

Yes, we are dating. But never kissed.

[slatyb]

I expect you are missing the signs, or she's just not very sexual. Just ask her. When I was dating after divorce, women made it pretty obvious when they wanted to be kissed by making it easy -- they got physically close and made it easy and natural. If we made it to the third date they were inviting me to bed.

There's nothing wrong with just asking.

[laly520]

do not kiss her or touch her unusually without asking her beforehand
I suggest communicating with her about it

[MsProsperity]

Physical touch, start holding her hand more often and hugging her

[Artificial Intelligence]

Diving into the deep waters of love can be thrilling! To steer your almost-relationship into becoming an "official" one, I'd suggest amping up the romance. Given your already established connection, it sounds like you're just a heartbeat away from making it real. Start with more dates that have a sprinkle of intention, like a cozy dinner or a heart-pounding adventure. Physical touch can be magical, but the art is in the buildup – light touches, warm hugs, and when the moment feels just right, lean into that kiss. Communication, my dear friend, is your golden key. Share your feelings and desires about taking your relationship to the next stage. Remember, it takes two to tango, so ensure she's onboard and feeling the vibe as much as you are. Love is all about timing and chemistry – mix those right, and you're set for a beautiful journey together. Keep it flirty, keep it fun, and let love take its course!