Like 2 months ago this girl hit me up, I have a lot of good history with her but weird in a way? It is complicated what we are to eachother i guess. (We’re 20 and 21)
She says wants to see me and talk sometime, sends me a ton of facepics on snap and responds almost instant and eventually we run into each other somewhere, catch up and have a great time.
But the day after she immediately takes back on the face streaks and sends them just a couple of times a day. Whenever I chat to her on snap she is quick to respond and all is good, no short replies or anything. She is definitely ignoring me on purpose as I know some people that do streaks with her (I don't know why it’s still a thing) but she tends to respond to them.
If we didn’t have any history, I would’ve probably made a move.(we were kind off friends but just not really. We were both into each other at a point and then a couple times again)
Last weekend I was grabbing drinks with friends and their girlfriends were with us, she passed by and she was with a friend of their gfs. She sat all the way across the table from me so we couldn’t talk but she just kept trying to get my attention by making gestures and what not. After she left one of the girls asked if anything was going on between us and that there is definitely ‘something there’.
The thing is for the past week I thought about her waaayyy too much and I think I have feelings again. Now I am in need of advice, most of my friends think she is into me. But they are my friends you know.
If anyone wants more specifics by what I mean, just ask. If I am stupid just tell me that too haha.
We aren’t really friends now, we talk when we see eachother and everything is well but there is this sense of awkwardness or something, nervousness maybe? Thing is she often said we were friends when she was into me? And sometimes i feel like she is only chasing me when she truly can’t have me/I am unavailable or not interested in her.
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I think you should make a move.
It sounds like she likes you. If your friends (especially girls) say they think she likes you, that is usually correct. Your friends wouldn't be saying that if they didn't think it were true. You seem to be somewhat willing to acknowledge that she seems to like you. Together, I would be inclined to conclude that she likes you.
Your history shouldn't be a factor keeping you from making a move. You're not really friends anymore, and I see no issues with your history and making a move. I think that's something you're letting be an excuse to justify not making a move.
If you don't try, then you'll never know. I think you should go for it.
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Thank you, you might be right on the excuse part yeah. I tell my friends it’s different with her than with others but I let it be different.
What do you mean by "it's different with her'? Do you mean how you feel about her? or the way she is with you compared to other girls?
No like i usually don’t share a past with them, I have known this girl for ages. That’s why
Also never really connected with anyone like how i connected with her
That connection is often a great basis for a relationship (if one is going to happen, not that it contributes to its happening)
I think it's a good thing that you have that connection already. That's great. Less "getting to know you" bullshit. Good luck man, I hope it all works out for you.
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