So there was this girl in high school who I was friends with and also had a secret crush on well after Covid we didn’t really get to contact each other until just last year or early this year. I don’t know which anyways we ran into each other in a Walmart after not seeing each other for a while. My father was with me because he comes down to visit every two weeks and always on a Friday. Because he’s an awesome dad.
Anyways, after that awkward encounter, my dad told me that she liked me and I mean at first I didn’t believe him but then my stepmom said it to and that was interesting. I mean don’t get me wrong. I was really happy to see her. But I only had a little romantic interest, and certainly not enough for me to pursue anything. Plus I wound up with someone else for a while anyways wasn’t that long and honestly wasn’t that serious.
Anyways, a while after all that, she called me while drunk and was professing her love to me and honestly, it was very embarrassing because I was with family when she did that. That was very uncomfortable.
Today we ran into each other, and almost exactly the same thing as what happened at Walmart happened again. She wanted a hug, and I gave her a handshake.
I honestly don’t know what to do. Do I have interest in her? Yeah, a little bit.
I don’t wanna lead her on. She doesn’t deserve that but i don’t know how what course to take.
Anyways, after that awkward encounter, my dad told me that she liked me and I mean at first I didn’t believe him but then my stepmom said it to and that was interesting. I mean don’t get me wrong. I was really happy to see her. But I only had a little romantic interest, and certainly not enough for me to pursue anything. Plus I wound up with someone else for a while anyways wasn’t that long and honestly wasn’t that serious.
Anyways, a while after all that, she called me while drunk and was professing her love to me and honestly, it was very embarrassing because I was with family when she did that. That was very uncomfortable.
Today we ran into each other, and almost exactly the same thing as what happened at Walmart happened again. She wanted a hug, and I gave her a handshake.
I honestly don’t know what to do. Do I have interest in her? Yeah, a little bit.
I don’t wanna lead her on. She doesn’t deserve that but i don’t know how what course to take.
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First figure out what you want. She's clearly going to be receptive to being asked out.
Handshake? Ooof, still it's recoverable.
Now, chill out and persue it, casually dating someone is not leading them on, it's finding out if you want to become more serious, take her on a date, be clear from the start that you are interested but not sure you want a relationship right now, it's just another human, don't overthink it unless it you don't have a choice, how we interact with each other doesn't need to have rules or labels, we are biology and psychology, it wants to do most of the work, work out the details as you go
It’s not the first time she went for a hug and got a handshake. It’s just a natural reflex.
Ok, that's the first task, if she goes for a hug then give her one back 👍
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