I keep hearing about how abortion is a woman’s choice. How men shouldn’t be able to tell women what they can and can’t do even if it is an immoral decision.
My point being men aren’t telling women they can’t work. Men aren’t telling women that they can’t get an education. Men aren’t telling women who they can and can’t marry. So this isn’t even really about control. We respect their personal choices so long as it doesn’t affect anybody else’s well being.
But the second someone else’s life becomes involved is when we have an issue. Especially when that other party involved doesn’t even have any say in the decision that awaits them.
And you might argue that babies don’t decide to be born either, but I haven’t heard of a single infant being suicidal.
So as much as people say its about men controlling women that isn’t even what this is about. Because truth be told there are still about just as many women that feel the same way as men even if they do tend to be more shy about expressing their beliefs publicly.
So my point is I just don’t think anybody deserves the “right” to decide the fate of another person without their consent.
All because its an inconvenience for them and they want to absolve themselves of personal responsibility.
I think its time that both men and women learn that they have to accept any possible risk involved with sex.
Because truth be told even though it is a woman’s final decision regardless of the law, I think guys bear equal responsibility towards any unwanted pregnancy that might happen.
But personally I’m unwilling to accept the risk of becoming a father at this moment in time so guess what decision I made?
Abstinence. Since I do want to become a father later. Otherwise I would’ve just had a vasectomy by now.
And same deal goes for women. If you don’t want kids at any point in your life either just accept that no contraceptive is 100% perfect, abstain, or have your fallopian tubes tied up.
I took the safer option of abstaining.
My point being men aren’t telling women they can’t work. Men aren’t telling women that they can’t get an education. Men aren’t telling women who they can and can’t marry. So this isn’t even really about control. We respect their personal choices so long as it doesn’t affect anybody else’s well being.
But the second someone else’s life becomes involved is when we have an issue. Especially when that other party involved doesn’t even have any say in the decision that awaits them.
And you might argue that babies don’t decide to be born either, but I haven’t heard of a single infant being suicidal.
So as much as people say its about men controlling women that isn’t even what this is about. Because truth be told there are still about just as many women that feel the same way as men even if they do tend to be more shy about expressing their beliefs publicly.
So my point is I just don’t think anybody deserves the “right” to decide the fate of another person without their consent.
All because its an inconvenience for them and they want to absolve themselves of personal responsibility.
I think its time that both men and women learn that they have to accept any possible risk involved with sex.
Because truth be told even though it is a woman’s final decision regardless of the law, I think guys bear equal responsibility towards any unwanted pregnancy that might happen.
But personally I’m unwilling to accept the risk of becoming a father at this moment in time so guess what decision I made?
Abstinence. Since I do want to become a father later. Otherwise I would’ve just had a vasectomy by now.
And same deal goes for women. If you don’t want kids at any point in your life either just accept that no contraceptive is 100% perfect, abstain, or have your fallopian tubes tied up.
I took the safer option of abstaining.
