Search Results: feelings for ex

Therapists out there, anyone really, what should I do?

Ex girlfriend has avoidant attachment and we’re still friends, I have feelings still, should I cut her off?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would my ex ask for permission to add a guy she used to have feelings for on her fb?

So my ex broke up with me a week ago, and tbf it was cause I didn't trust her due to my own past self traumas with cheating ex's, and also being an anxious attachment style, after she ended it I went into no contact and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you cope with non-monogamy?

Hi all, I’ve just been feeling up and down the past 2 weeks because of this new discovery. My boyfriend was caught emotional cheating with his ex last year, we moved past it and worked it out. But then he was caught again...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I crazy or are these signs? PT 1?

I’ve known my crush for 9 years. We used to be really close but a couple years ago he stopped talking to me because I was coming on to him a little too hard and he didn’t have the same feelings. About a year later he...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Did my boyfriend have every right to leave me because I was a pushover?

My now ex boyfriend and I have been dating for only a month in a half and things were going fine. I’m nice, sweet, helpful and let people do what the can. I always jump in to help and that’s a problem for him. He told I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ran into my ex with someone new did I go too far?

I’m A few days ago, I unexpectedly ran into my ex at a takeaway. We actually broke up on good terms, and only last week he told me he still loved me and cared about me so seeing him with someone new came as a complete...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How would you interpret this?

I was supposed to speak with my ex today to meet up and he called me at 1, about ten times, then at 2 messaged this: im done calling you don't call me it's over I’m not sure if I should take it as I’m done calling. Or I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this grief even if I'm better now during breakup?

There's a feeling— it's like without your ex, life just feels narrow or gloomy. Like no matter what fun things you do, if they’re not in your life, everything loses its flavor. It’s that kind of feeling. Honestly, I...

blazerock44

Xper 7 Age: 27

Would a player put this much effort?

When we first started talking back in February, I wasn't looking for anything. I was pregnant from my ex. I ended up having an unexpected miscarriage in March. This guy turned into my emotional support system during that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this a red flag situation?

This guy that works with me we started off as friends with benefits but were really good friends and we stop doing that because he went back to his ex and got married and I just been feeling like off ever since he told me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does the conversation between my partner and his ex count as cheating or not?

I would like to know your opinions. This is their text to each other on ig a few weeks after we started dating in 2022 and it's not originally in English so I had to translate it into English by using Google translate ,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he do this? I just don’t believe him? Is he trying to manipulate me and make me feel bad for not listening to him?

I met a guy at a party months ago while on a trip. We’ve been talking for six months. I am currently visiting the area as my friends are there. I met up with him, we spoke and cuddled and kissed all day, and then slept...

Magosmall06

Xper 6 Age: 28

Does my ex miss me or just my body?

my ex texting me one night and said he’s feeling you know and wanted to sext. like i played along but i probably shouldn’t have given him the satisfaction and even told him he could come to my house. but we’ve done this...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Ex talking stage upset at me?

Me and this guy talked for a few months before I ended it because he told me he wasn’t ‘looking for anything serious’. Months go by and he’s interested in a relationship with me, which I turnt down. No hard feelings. Now,...

avony12

Xper 7 Age: 27

Is this attachment or love?

My ex and I broke up 9 months ago after dating for 4 months, we're both the same age, and we were 17, currently 18. I was the one to break up with him for personal reasons, and I blocked him on all platforms. I unblocked...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it a red flag to be close friends with an ex?

If one person is close friends with their ex, I could see how it might seem like feelings are still there and cause insecurity in a relationship. At the same time, after ending a long term relationship, they might see...

meepmeeperton

Xper 7 Age: 22