Search Results: bad attitude

Why should I do with her?

She is too indifferent to when I tell her how bad I am. It seems like every time I want to talk about it she's rushing me. I can never finish saying what I want to say, and her attitude is to say that everything is fine,...

dgr97

Xper 1 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Should I apologize to my ex?

My ex and I broke up and I wanted her back so I was doing whatever it takes but she was being so hard on herself. I understand it takes a lot of time to feel the way you used to feel but she was really making it hard for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

So what is a "high value" man and what is an "alpha man"?

One definition among decent respectable people who contribute actual meaningful value to society - and who DO not call themselves "alpha men" or "high value" because it GOES WITHOUT SAY through their actions, etc. . Alpha...

FreakyBaby87

Xper 2 Age: 39

Relationships

So who is the REAL person of the guy I'm starting to date --- the one that seems to be lovely dovey or the guy who has a bit of an attitude problem?

I've just started with the guy and there's been something niggling the back of my mind that I can't put a finger on but don't like. You see most times he's nice and friendly, etc. and says all the "right" words But every...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I've just started with the guy and there's been something niggling the back of my mind that I can't put a finger on but don't like. You see most times he's nice and friendly, etc. and

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Break Up & Divorce

Was I wrong to back off?

My girlfriend broke up with me because we moved to different cities. It was mutually agreed upon, and everything was supposed to be as it was before. She meant a lot to me and was my dearest friend. After some months, she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

How do you handle a coworker who is unreliable, has a bad attitude 24/7, and undoes your work?

So I work in retail as a manager in all women apparel. Celebrated one year got promoted, a raise, and lots of growth opportunity along with special training on merchandising etc. The girl I work with went from part timer...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do western women really understand how much power they have (in romantic terms) when all else is equal compared to their male counterpart?

Power in itself is not a bad thing as long as it’s responsibly. Also notice how I used western women and not women in general. There are places in this world where women are still truly oppressed (Middle East, southeast...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

If you're not going to get forgiven, it's it better walking away without apologizing at all?

My now ex friend discovered her now ex boyfriend and I have been getting it on for 4 months. Though I've put an end to it last month but she still found the old texts. It's unlikely I'll ever get forgiven so this was my...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

My ex boyfriend wants to go to a gynecologist appointment with me. Any opinion?

My ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, it was due to a fight and I reacted extremely bad and caused a scene. I was upset because he was showing a lot of distrust against me. He was acting very controlling and the...

Milaaa_

Xper 1 Age: 25

Relationships

What do I do about this?

The girl I love has a child. I’ve been searching for this girl for 7 years because I used to admire her a lot back in High School and we lost contacts, but still that feeling inside me didn’t fade away. We got in contact...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why many guys have bad attitude to dating and rather avoid it?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Is this grown woman jealous of me?

This woman at my job is in her late thirties and has three kids. I’m 21 and we work in retail. She has been nice before but she jokes a lot and kinda has a mellow attitude. She seems bipolar / confusing because...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

What do you think about Truss goes to Taiwan?

In the chance, I review about taiwan problems again. First, taiwan's media tear two side as CNN and Fox in USA I guess that have been fucked up but one side that president's party start brainwashing people and cut over...

ibodi

Guru Age: 49

Girl's Behavior

Are there evolutionary factors that make women more selfish then men?

Before you all get defensive I admit this is a generalization. Not every woman is more selfish than her male counterpart. However in general I really do believe women are instinctually more selfish than men especially...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Before you all get defensive I admit this is a generalization. Not every woman is more selfish than her male counterpart. However in general I really do believe women are

Before you all get defensive I admit this is a generalization. Not every woman is more selfish than her male counterpart.

However in general I really do believe women are instinctually more selfish than men especially when it comes to relationships. However there are evolutionary factors at play and let me explain.

There was a time in history that in most cultures women had far fewer options than men when it came to employment, political office, business and land ownership, etc in most cultures. They also had some special privileges (not being forced to fight in wars). However they were for the most part completely dependent on men to protect and provide for them and the children. Also before birth control a woman had to be careful who she had sex with. She could get stuck with the baby.

But women always did have one key advantage over men and that was their feminine wiles and sexuality. They could manipulate men through relationships and marriage to get their needs met. Especially if they were attractive.

Women also developed a more callous attitude towards men who they did perceive could benefit them. At best they would ignore these men but they also had to act defensive and suspicious given that these men could harm/rape them. Although chivalry prevented most men from doing something like that there were always unfortunately bad men out there. Women had to be selfish to survive.

Fast forward to modern day. Nowadays western women definitely don’t need men to survive in modern society. In fact if are a woman you will likely have an advantage over a man if all else is equal. Corporations, political offices, etc look to promote women in the name of “gender equality”.

However I do not believe women have generally evolved out of their “self preservation” selfishness. They reject with less shame. They act much more entitled to accept hand outs. They don’t fight fair.

I believe many modern women just can’t admit this hypocrisy due to hard set evolutionary factors.

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Relationships

Is he done with the relationship?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other things which I forgave him for & moved on from. Over time, I did individual therapy to get past old trauma and we went to couple’s counseling unofficially for a couple of months which both was extremely helpful since we do have communication issues.

Recently, we decided to go on a vacation & he decided that he wanted to go to Niagara Falls since he was picky about the destination. I created a google doc & everything for the trip to keep track of expenses & itinerary. Since I was in charge of the rental car, I got it, picked him up from the airport, & he had normal behavior. That ended when we missed a turn, & he advised me to do a 3-point turn to which the police pulled me over for. I blamed him immediately & he got extremely upset to the point he didn’t want to talk to me anymore even though he was still a little at fault regardless if it was my decision to do it.

Later on in the trip, he quickly realized he didn’t pack the right clothes so I gave him both of my jackets so he wouldn’t be cold. He tried to do the half sharing jacket thing, & I told him no since the jacket was wet & he got very upset again where he stated “you ruined the trip because of your attitude.” By the end of the trip, he stated how we’re “so different”, how he is unhappy due to thinking about all the bad things he’s done in the past to me, & wants me to be with someone better. I was shocked since I thought he moved on from it, & I advised him to start therapy since he stated he wasn’t sure what he wanted from life himself. He kept rejecting the idea of it stating how it wouldn’t help, but eventually agreed to try. I told him I didn’t want to break up since I personally wasn’t unhappy being with him & my happiness is my decision to which he said “it’s not about you, it’s me.” What do you think? We are long distance

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Entertainment & Arts

Why some fans put celebrities on a pedestal?

I mean like they are Gods or something? Im aware they have money, power and fame and not eveyrone can have that and also most celebrities are like untouchables, cocky, shallow narcissists self absorbed and arrogants and a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

I want to give up following politics but I have had a few horrible past incidents where I was discriminated against. How can I stay informed?

Way back in 2015 I faced very real cancel culture at my old job. I never talked about politics at work but I was “outed” as a secret conservative in a company where everybody else was liberal. I was asked to manage online...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Was she emotionally unavailable?

Hey. So I met this woman about a year ago at a mutual friend's baby shower. When I saw her I instantly wanted to get to know her more. It wasn't like the cliche "love at first sight" but I felt drawn to her for some...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend lacks self discipline (self care, diet, not in shape, not clean etc) am I sexist for not wanting to do it with him?

My boyfriend is very good to me. But he's overweight. It bothers me not so much his body because I deeply find him attractive. But it's the mindset that bothers me. I am disabled with lupus so I'm sick often. Still I make...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Is your money more likely to go to a physically gorgeous woman with a bad attitude or a kind hairy obese homeless man?

Anonymous

(36-45)

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