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Lets say a male is dating another male... but that person is converting to a different gender... whom knows which one.

That can be really messed up if the first male didn't know the other other wanted to change in the first place, causing sexual frustrations. They may be confused themselves on their gender identity... maybe they should switch too, causing the other to lose interest?

Add to it, the person they are dating could be putting an emotional burden on them about how people don't like trans people and they call trans people mentally ill. Hurting the feelings of the partner might invoke the first person to fits of hatred and rage... pride... enough to do harm to others.

It all seems nuts, but in this mindset, it seems they may act out... and feel good about what they did.. because they are confused and kind nutty in the first place. Maybe they kill someone to defend the honor of their gender changing mate? It be justified to some to silence the voice harming the one they care for, might even feel good about it, but later, confused. People have been known to kill on command from others. doesn't' take much.

Lastly, do you think such people caught up in such gender, sexual, and relational confusions might possibly... have mental illnesses lurking? Like... some deeper issues that distort reality?

It's girls ask guys... so seems a valid psychological question.

It strikes me... without a reference point for what is sane, it's difficult to have that... sanity...

It's all conjecture...

The biggest hatred towards Interracial coupling that I've ever seen has always been black men dating a woman that's white (or fair skin). Often time, the comments are filled with people slinging slurs at the women and telling her how badly she messed up her life by being with a black male. And interracial relationships are hard enough as it is, you got cultural differences, having to be accepted by each others family in real life, as well as, look of disgust/staring by people in real life. So I can totally understand why a lot of girls would not want the added difficulty of having to deal with racist online harassing them when they try to celebrate their relationship or post pictures of their interracial child.

Example, a white woman posting pictures with her half black child. A large % of her comments are insults towards her and her child.

You will NEVER EVER see this level of hatred if it were a white male with an interracial child.