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Is it bad that I can’t stand my autistic sister?

Since she came into the world 22 years ago, it was a nightmare! No offense to our sister but she is a total nightmare!
She is high functioning autistic and smart, BUT she gets pissed off when the attention is on someone else. She throws a temper tantrum when things don’t go her way and it’s our parents fault for enabling her.

When were little, they disciplined her and all that. She’s knows what is right and wrong.

But overall, when she did something like make a mess, destroy a room or whatever, my brother and I ALWAYS got the blame! We had to clean up her messes. We got punished for it. We argued with them that she is the one that did all that she should clean it up but they said we’re being jerks to her. She’s autistic and things are hard for her.
She ruined one of my birthdays. She got bitter and angry because the focus was on me and she tried to do everything to make people pay attention to her. She was going to rear my brownie cake and I pushed her away. My parents scolded at me for being “rude” to her. My aunt called my parents out for enabling our sisters behavior. She did the same thing at my brothers birthdays.
We did chores and our parents said we had to do it but our sister sat around and watched TV and laid around.

We made her help us. She threw a fit bit she yelled at her and told her off to shut up and she is going to help. Mom and dad aren’t hear to back her up so she is going to help! I know we shouldn’t have family members, but I cannot stand my sister. She always got away with things. She would touch people and grab people or parents will make any lousy excuse that she’s autistic. She’s 22 still living at home. She still doesn’t do chores, has no job, and she’s actually going on a cruise. Our parents didn’t take us anywhere if we didn’t behave or do chores, so why should she get all the good stuff when they keep enabling her? So glad we don’t live at the house anymore.

Is it bad that I can’t stand my autistic sister?
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