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On Halloween night I hit up a kava bar that I like to frequent. I’m not an alcoholic but I’ve really stayed away from booze in the last few years just for health reasons. The place is meant for recovery.

While I went to order a kava drink I noticed that bartender was dressed in a provocative sexy nurse uniform costume. She was showing cleavage.

I was acquaintances with this girl. Knew her first name. We had briefly friendly conversations in the past. She is cute but I never hit on her. I was always respectful. I am guessing she’s in her mid 20s.

Anyway my eyes instinctively glanced at her body and when I realized I was staring I quickly turned away. Again she was dressed provocatively.

Despite catching myself it was too late. She noticed that I noticed and she didn’t like it. She then gave me gave me the “don’t stare at me you creep” look.

And that really pissed me off. Of course I never did nor ever will say anything stupid. My eyes instinctively noticed for a good second but it’s not like I kept on staring. I didn’t indulge the thought. What right does she have to judge me given she fricken dressed up that way to get noticed to begin with?

Anyway I can’t control how people are going to think. But this is a major hypocrisy I see in women. They dress provocatively expecting to only get attention from where they want it vs. naively expecting not get noticed from where they don’t.

Hate that.

I am 20 years old. To find a pretty girl it’s like you have to be too perfect I’ll give you examples.

You see on instagram
The men that get all the pretty women are jacked, 6ft, handsome, making millions a year, millions of followers ‘influencer.’ Best car best everything. They change girl everyday

Is this where the bar is set? As I am not sure I should even bother speaking to a pretty girl. I have been rejected plenty. I feel less confidence. In my age group I see few guys with girlfriends, I struggle to name names I don’t know what I’m going to do