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I am breaking up with a man because the only reason I am dating him was due to manipulation. I have had a lot of people bringing me to my senses, we have only been dating a few days but I have literally had breakdowns about how it even happened. He pretty much told me he had no reason to live if he couldn’t have me, he turned to drugs because I stopped talking to him and stuff like that, while I was drunk and vulnerable. He was also drunk so I don’t think he was purposefully manipulating me, but then again there have been times sober he has said similar things like “The only way I would have another heart attack is if my heart was to break again, and well we both know there’s only one way that would happen” which was referring to me. Or just remarks like that. I have been in a manipulative relationship before and I know I can’t do this again, so I am breaking up with him, I just need to figure out how, would it be wrong to redownload tinder before breaking up with him?
Also I am scared once I do break up with him he “won’t allow me to” if that makes sense. I think I trapped myself making this decision but again I felt like I didn’t have a choice…

So I was speaking to a guy for a while, he was really nice, really sweet and I was obsessed but mostly only when I was drunk. I felt bad for how I treated him and decided I wasn’t gonna speak to him or see him again. My pal pretty much forced into going on a night out with him by guilting me so I couldn’t say no. I went in this night out and right enough drunk me can’t control myself around him even though I can’t see him sober because I get scared of the age difference. So, again I am not speaking to him, and I have been avoiding him for over a month… my friend (who is one of my best friends) promised me he would not be at her birthday. She has left it until last second and said to me oh he’s coming by the way. So now I am panicking and I don’t really want to go but I’d be a bad friend if I bailed so now I am stuck going and I need to see him which I really really don’t think I can do without having a panic attack. Is it fair that she done that? Also what would you do in my position?