How to restore my pride and self respect after chasing, begging and turning up drunk to an ex boyfriend house after he got married?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

There's only one thing to do

Acknowledge it, accept it.
Apologize for it learn from it and then move on. Don't hold yourself back it happened

Just because you are a fool that day doesn't mean that you have to be one every day after.
So do the above and then move on but really be sorry for it

In time you will let it go you will let it quit beating you up you quit beating yourself up

And somewhere down the road. You will get clarity and understand you guys separated for a reason. You might not like the reason right now, but you will once you let it go or he proves something to everybody in time.

And then you will learn that it was meant to happen because otherwise something else could have happened

And everything you just did makes you even more foolish because you couldn't control yourself over somebody. You weren't supposed to be with anyway.
There is a lesson there
So breathe in deep XL deep. Take your shoes of go stand out on the a****** to concrete the grass. Let the Sun let the energy. Drain all the negative energy from your body and start again. It's called end can't control people only yourself.

In life we get to choose who we want to be by the things we say and do

Is this what you want to be known for what you just did or do you want to be known on the other side of that

A strong person.
Not a weak person, so smile accept it. Apologize and be done with it

[RHK36]

Start at the bottom in terms of pride and dignity. You hit rock bottom so you'll have to earn it back slowly. Accept it and move forward is the move.

[DryGermanGuy]

Just do that over and over again, till it becomes routine. You got this! 😬👍

[msc545]

Apologize to the ex-boyfriend and whoever else was invoilved. and then break off contact with all of them.