I begged a man to stay with me and I feel so embarrassed about it, how do I regain dignity?

[Anonymous]

We dated for few months and fell in love with him. Then I made a silly mistake getting angry at him for a cancelled date and he pulled away because of that. I reached out and apologized but he wasn't very forgiving, said it pushed him away. And then I stooped so low to beg him to not leave me, to work this out. He said okay but didn't hear from him again. I guess he is done with me.
I had time to think about everything and I realized that he wasn't that into me in the first place and that me getting angry shouldn't have been a deal breaker for someone who really likes me. I am so turned off by him now and I hope he never contacts me again, he doesn't deserve me. But I am still not over the fact that I begged him... I ended up being such a pathetic doormat and I'm disgusted by myself. He's probably laughing right now telling his friends how pathetic I am.
I really need my dignity back!

[Alyssa11]

Part of being in love and being attached to people is we act out of character. If the other person doesn’t reciprocate that and doesn’t appreciate our awesomeness, I guess they just weren’t supposed to receive it. And that’s okay. Accept that what you did was OKAY because you really liked the guy. At least now you know you didn’t like seeing yourself behaving like that and you won’t do it again. Dwelling over the past isn’t going to change anything. Enjoy your life and look forward to the future.

PS we all do things out of character when we’re in love. Who cares what people think!

[Keyboardkat]

Unfortunately we don't get to go back and fix the past. I can't tell you how many times in my life I've wished for a do-over, a chance to go back and make better decisions, to lose the girl but keep my self-respect instead of the other way around, to heal the hurts I've caused, etc., etc. But the clock, and the calendar, only go in one direction, and we can't revisit the past. All we can do is learn from our mistakes and try not to repeat them.
Next time someone mistreats you, remember this part of your life and try to overrule your emotions and think with your head! Thinking with your feelings makes life complex. Thinking with your head makes live simple. Then you can walk away with your head high, go home and pour yourself a drink, and work on healing and moving on.

[havingfun101]

He's not laughing at you, unless he's very cruel. Too much pride caused the original problem. Humility is how one grows as a person. Our mistakes are not a reflection on our value but a learning experience.

[Anonymous]

Hey, don't feel bad, it happen sto plenty so you're not the first nor last. This feeling is just there to show you that you've learned better, which in the long run isn't a bad thing. How long were you together and how often did you see each other if you don't mind me asking?

[Anonymous]

We've all begged in our lives before. It's not the worst thing. My other friends boyfriend broke up with her because she didn't want to blow him. She was so desperate she sucked him that night infront of us and when he came he left. Next day he told her and everyone else he doesn't date cocksuckers like her

[red_knight]

Only you can restore your own dignity, nobody can restore it for you.

Never apologise for your commitment to being a good person. Try not think what the world thinks about your actions, only you have the power to do that.

[Iron_Man]

Nothing it’s not that big of a deal

[chriscdi]

i think its gone