I left a guy who was using me and me totally humiliated me and offended me, why?

[Lyhra4]

I was hanging out with a guy who was just interested in sex, but I always wanted more. Another day he invited me to his house but as soon as I got there he wanted to hide me. I felt totally humiliated and finally he said that his dad would come the day after which was an invitation for me to leave. I talked to him and said that I would leave the other day and he was expecting me to dinner with him but I couldn't stay anymore because I was very hurt and decided to leave by my own. After that I told him I wouldn't go back to his house and he started to blame me for his behaviour and started to humiliating me calling me ugly and a loser. I don't understand why because I never treated him badly. Was his male ego hurt? Or why did he started to treat me that bad?

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I showed him my insecurities and basically he thrown them to me when I left

[InfobotLives]

The guy was no good. That's the bottom line. If you knew that he was using you for sex but you let yourself continue to hope that it could be more then there is a lesson there for you, to trust your instinct and to accept what is staring you in the face. Don't expect someone to change their ways, they rarely do unless they're the one making the decision to.

[Lyhra4]

I totally agree with you. But I don't really understand his evil behaviour when he started to treat me like crap

[InfobotLives]

It just shows the kind of guy that he is. When he's not in control anymore he throws a tantrum and becomes toxic.

[Lyhra4]

that's true he is very toxic and the best I did was to leave ,,,,

[throwsomecheeseonit]

Well that's what boys do not men they project their insecurities unto you. They are afraid of commitment so they hurt girl first. They call you names and insult you to make you feel bad. Run far away from dude because the things he did also are prevalent in situations where girl is abused first mentally then physically. Mentally first so she doesn't leave then physically to assert dominance and because they are pieces of shit.

[Lyhra4]

You are right, I just want to forget this and feeling good with myself again... My selfesteem is totally destroyed

[MrCommodore]

He sounds like an asshole, no girl deserves to be treated like that. Don't listen to those kind of insults.

[Lyhra4]

Ye he is. I've never been treated like this all my life and the stupid part is that he was the only one who actually invited me to his house. I never supposed he would treat me this way

[humanearth]

He got what he wanted out of you. He was most likely cheating on his girlfriend or boyfriend and you were the side piece

[Lyhra4]

I have no words to describe who he his. I've never been so disrespected and humilliated all of my life. I just hope this was the first and last time this happens to me.

[humanearth]

I had the same thing happen to me when I was young. So I remember going though that.

[sweetlyhot]

Kick him on his balls

[Lyhra4]

I should have done that, but as you could read he is an aggressive person so I don't know what he could do if I did that...