Is he actually a dry texter or does he not like me?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been talking to this guy and he’s really sweet but he’s also very shy. Over text, he takes a pretty long time to respond unless it’s a conversation that’s towards the end of the day. He seems really interested in person and we’ve even kissed a few times. I asked him why he takes so long to respond and why he’s dry (I was drunk) and he said that he’s just nervous to talk to me. He seems genuine, but any guy that’s texted me and likes me, is rarely dry (except for one other time). I’m going insane over this 😭

[Alex-Snow]

I think it is just nerves. How old is he? Do you think it is because he might be new to relationships or even sex?

[Asker]

He’s 20

[Alex-Snow]

Same age as me... I bet he is just nervous and shy. Message me if u want to talk about it. Do u maybe want to ask him out for a cup of coffee or maybe a hike or walk?

[HisBro]

I think he's just a dry texter if he seems really interested in person

[HisBro]

Thank you for MHO

[Abbycado]

He gave you the answer.

[Asker]

That he likes me?

[Abbycado]

“ he said that he’s just nervous to talk to me”

Probably the issue right there. Doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you tho. Quite the opposite, most likely.

[Asker]

Do you know any way to make him less nervous? 😭😭

[Abbycado]

Eh, that’s a tough one. He may just be naturally like that. Maybe try starting a conversation about something that gets him excited like a hobby he is passionate about.

[Abbycado]

He might then see how easy it is to talk to you. Know what I mean?

[In_Trance]

You answered your own question

[TylerMezzy]

Have you tried phone calls? Is it any different

[Anonymous]

Shy for sure